How to say "grandmother" in Japanese

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  • 祖母そぼJLPT N4approx.Common
    nounThe polite word for one's own grandmother, used in writing and careful speech when referring to her; it is not used to address her directly — for that, おばあさん is the natural choice.
    私は祖母そぼが大好だいすきです。↗
    I love my grandmother very much.
  • おばあさんJLPT N5approx.Common
    nounThe everyday spoken word for a grandmother, usually written in kana; warm and familiar, used to address or refer to your own grandmother and to elderly women in general, as in chatting with family.
    ジョンのおばあさんは長ながい間ま病びょうに伏ふせていたが、亡なくなった。↗
    John's grandmother passed away after a long illness.
  • nounA shortened, rougher word for grandmother, usually written in kana; natural in casual family talk, but it can sound rude about or toward an elderly woman outside the family. Typical context: chatting at home.
    Today I'm shopping in town as well as running an errand for my grandmother.

Use 祖母 for your own grandmother in polite speech and writing, 「おばあさん」 for everyday conversation, and 「ばあさん」 only in casual, familiar talk, since it can sound rough toward others.

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