How to say "son-in-law" in Japanese

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  • 養子ようしCommon
    nounReally means an adopted child, usually male; as 'son-in-law' it refers to one who is also an adopted son of the family. For an ordinary son-in-law, this is not the word you want.
    妻つまは養子ようしをとりたかった。↗
    My wife wanted to adopt a child.
  • 娘婿むすめむこCommon
    nounA transparent word meaning the husband of one's daughter; use it when you want to make that relationship explicit, as when speaking of your own daughter's husband.
    彼かれの娘婿むすめむこは海外かいがいの支店してんに転勤てんきんになった。↗
    His son-in-law was transferred to an overseas branch.
  • 女婿じょせいCommon
    nounA kanji compound for the husband of one's daughter, expressing the same relationship as 娘婿; use either when you mean your daughter's husband.
  • 婿むこJLPT N1approx.Common
    nounThe short, general word for one's son-in-law, the husband of one's daughter; it can also mean a bridegroom, which the context makes clear.

Use 婿 or 娘婿 for an ordinary son-in-law — your daughter's husband; 女婿 is a kanji compound with the same meaning, and 養子 fits only a son-in-law who is also an adopted son.

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Japanese equivalents
  • 養子ようしadopted child (usu. male)
  • 娘婿むすめむこson-in-law
  • 女婿じょせいson-in-law
  • 婿むこ(one's) son-in-law
  • お婿さんおむこさん(one's) son-in-law

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