How to say "torment" in Japanese

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  • 苦しめるくるしめるJLPT N1approx.Common
    ichidan verb, transitive verbThe general verb for tormenting someone: to make a person suffer, whether through physical pain or mental anguish. Use this for 'torment someone' in most contexts.
  • いじめるJLPT N4approx.Common
    ichidan verb, transitive verbTorment as bullying: to ill-treat, pick on, or make life miserable for someone weaker, as with a classmate or coworker being bullied. Usually written in kana alone.
    私は彼かれをいじめたことを後悔こうかいした。↗
    I felt bad about picking on him.
  • 悩ますなやますJLPT N1approx.Common
    godan verb, transitive verbTorment of the mind: to afflict, harass, or plague someone with worry or anguish. Typical subjects are regrets, doubts, or a persistent problem that keeps tormenting a person.
    そんなささいなことで私を悩なやまさないでくれ。↗
    Don't bother me with such trifles.
  • 苦痛くつうJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounA noun, not a verb: torment in the sense of agony or suffering itself rather than the act of tormenting. To say that someone torments another person, use a verb.
    苦痛くつうで彼かれの顔かおが歪ゆがんでいる。↗
    His face is distorted by pain.
  • 責めせめCommon
    nounA noun for torture or torment — the act of inflicting suffering on someone. It is seldom the word you want for the verb 'torment'; use 苦しめる or 悩ます instead.
    彼かれは生徒せいとの質問しつもん責せめに困こまっているところだ。↗
    He is being harassed by a flood of questions from his students.

Choose 「苦しめる」 for tormenting someone physically or mentally, 「悩ます」 for torment of the mind, 「いじめる」 for bullying, 苦痛 when torment is a noun meaning suffering, and 「責め」 for torture or the act of tormenting.

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