How to say "console" in Japanese

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  • 慰めるなぐさめるJLPT N2approx.Common
    ichidan verb, transitive verbCovers the emotional sense of 'console': to comfort someone who is sad, disappointed, or grieving, and by extension to cheer or amuse them. Typical when consoling a friend after a failure or loss.
  • いたわるJLPT N1approx.Common
    godan verb, transitive verbThe gloss 'to console' is only marginal; this word really means to pity or sympathize with someone and to treat them with sympathy and care. For actively consoling a sad person, 慰める is usually the word you want.
    老人ろうじんをいたわりなさい。↗
    Be kind to old people.

Use 「慰める」 when consoling someone who is sad or disappointed; 「いたわる」 is better for sympathizing with or showing care for someone's hardship, and is usually written in kana.

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