How to say "cousin" in Japanese

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  • いとこJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounA male cousin, with no indication of age relative to the speaker. Usually written in kana alone, it is the everyday word to reach for when simply stating that someone is your cousin.
    私には弁護士べんごしのいとこがいる。↗
    I have a cousin who is a lawyer.
  • 従兄じゅうけいCommon
    nounSpecifically an older male cousin. This kanji spelling makes the older-male meaning explicit, so it suits contexts where that detail matters; for a general reference to a male cousin, いとこ is the usual choice.
    スミスさん一家いっかは私わたしたちのいとこです。↗
    The Smiths are our cousins.

Use 「いとこ」 for a male cousin in general; use 従兄 when you specifically need to say the cousin is an older male, typically in writing or formal reference.

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