How to say "respectful" in Japanese

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  • 手厚いてあついCommon
    i-adjectiveCovers 'respectful' in the sense of warm, attentive treatment — a respectful reception, welcome or care. It describes how kindly and generously someone is treated, not a respectful attitude.
    Captain Cook thanked the natives for their hospitality.
  • 恭しいうやうやしい
    i-adjectiveThe safest general choice for 'respectful' as an attitude or manner: polite, reverent conduct toward someone or something held in esteem. It describes how a person behaves, not how they are treated.
  • 粛しゅく
    taru-adjective, adverb (with と)Means solemn and reverent; in practice it appears almost solely in the adverbial phrase 粛として ('solemnly, reverently'), and is seldom the word you want for ordinary 'respectful'.
  • 礼やかいややか
    na-adjectiveA less common word for polite, respectful bearing or behavior, close in meaning to 恭しい. When 'respectful' describes an attitude, 恭しい is the safer choice; this word is seldom encountered.
  • 鞠躬如きっきゅうじょ
    taru-adjective, adverb (with と)A rare expression for a deferential, humble, reverent bearing — respect shown through humble conduct. For saying 'respectful' it is only marginal; you will seldom, if ever, need it.

For warm, hospitable treatment choose 「手厚い」; for a polite, reverent attitude or manner choose 「恭しい」; 粛, 「礼やか」 and 鞠躬如 are rarer alternatives covering solemn, reverent or deferential shades that learners seldom need.

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