How to say "woo" in Japanese
- 言い寄るいいよるgodan verb, intransitive verbCovers the courting sense of 'woo' — approaching someone you hope to win over. It is less common, and since it can also mean 'to approach defiantly', context must make the romantic intent clear.
- expression, ichidan verbFocuses on making advances — the moves you make on someone whose interest you want, not necessarily romantically, since it can also mean working on someone. Less common, and usually written using kana alone.
- 口説くくどくgodan verb, transitive verbThe common choice for the wooing sense: actively trying to win someone over, whether courting earnestly or making advances with seduction in mind. Use this when you simply mean 'woo'.それ、私を口説いてるの?↗Are you making a pass at me?
「口説く」 is the common choice for romantic wooing; 「言い寄る」 also means to court but is less common and can instead mean to approach defiantly; 「モーションをかける」 stresses making advances or working on someone.
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