How to say "courtesy" in Japanese

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  • 礼儀れいぎJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounThe everyday word for courtesy as polite behavior and good manners in dealing with people; the usual choice when talking about how politely someone acts toward others.
    そんなことをするのは礼儀れいぎの常識じょうしきを欠かいている。↗
    That is beneath ordinary decency.
  • 儀礼ぎれいCommon
    nounCourtesy in its formal, ceremonial dimension — protocol and formality observed in official or public occasions rather than everyday politeness between individuals.
  • エチケットJLPT N2approx.Common
    nounThe loanword for etiquette: the accepted rules of polite behavior in a particular situation. Use it when talking about knowing and observing proper manners in social or business settings.
    それはエチケットの問題もんだいだ。↗
    It's a matter of etiquette.
  • 厚意こういCommon
    nounCourtesy in the sense of a kind gesture or goodwill shown by someone — a favor done for you; this is the word when thanking someone for their kindness, not for polite behavior in general.
  • 典礼てんれいCommon
    no-adjectivePrimarily a word for formal ceremonies and rituals, including the Catholic liturgy; its 'courtesy' sense is marginal, so it is seldom the word you want for everyday courtesy.

Choose 礼儀 for polite everyday manners, 「エチケット」 for rules of etiquette, 儀礼 for formal protocol and formality, 厚意 for a kindness or favor shown by someone, and 典礼 mainly for ceremonies.

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