How to say "manners" in Japanese

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  • マナーCommon
    nounThe everyday word for manners and etiquette, borrowed from English; use it for polite behaviour in daily life, such as at the table or in public.
    誰だれが彼かれらにテーブルマナーを教おしえたんですか。↗
    Who taught them table manners?
  • 礼儀れいぎJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounCourtesy and proper conduct toward others; more formal and traditional in flavour than マナー, it is the word for the politeness expected in social life.
    そんなことをするのは礼儀れいぎの常識じょうしきを欠かいている。↗
    That is beneath ordinary decency.
  • 風俗ふうぞくJLPT N1approx.Common
    nounRefers to the customs and manners of a society or period rather than personal politeness; in everyday speech it strongly suggests the sex industry, so it is seldom the word you want.
    その地方ちほうではその古ふるい風俗ふうぞくがなお存続そんぞくしている。↗
    The old custom is still kept up in that district.
  • 作法さほうJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounFormal or traditional etiquette: the prescribed, proper way of doing things in a given setting, with a sense of decorum and propriety rather than casual everyday politeness.
    彼かれの貴族的きぞくてきな作法さほうには感心かんしんする。↗
    I admire his aristocratic manners.
  • 行儀ぎょうぎJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounPersonal behaviour and bearing — how someone sits, eats, and carries themselves; typically judged as good or bad, and often said of children.
    彼女かのじょは行儀ぎょうぎが極きわめて上品じょうひんである。↗
    She is quite decent in conduct.

Choose 「マナー」 for everyday polite behaviour, 礼儀 for courtesy and proper social conduct, 作法 for formal prescribed etiquette, 行儀 for personal behaviour and bearing, and avoid 風俗, which refers to a society's customs rather than personal manners.

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