How to say "pity" in Japanese

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  • 哀れあわれJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounCovers pity as a feeling of sorrow or misery, often with a poetic, sorrowful tone, as in pitying a person's sad fate. It names the emotion rather than an action toward someone.
    彼女かのじょは哀あわれを誘さそう有様ありさまだった。↗
    She was in a piteous state.
  • 哀れむあわれむCommon
    godan verb, transitive verbThe verb 'to pity': to feel sympathy for someone seen as unfortunate or in a wretched state. It often carries a nuance of looking down slightly on the person pitied.
    人々ひとびとはその孤児こじを哀あわれんだ。↗
    People took pity on the orphan.
  • いたわるJLPT N1approx.Common
    godan verb, transitive verbUsually written in kana alone. Matches 'to pity' but leans toward treating someone with sympathy and care, such as comforting or looking after a tired or troubled person, rather than simply feeling sorry for them.
    老人ろうじんをいたわりなさい。↗
    Be kind to old people.
  • 情けなさけJLPT N1approx.Common
    nounPity in the sense of compassion or mercy shown to others, as in taking pity on someone and helping them. It suggests warm-hearted forbearance rather than mere sorrow at their plight.
    旅たびは道連みちづれ世せいは情なさけ。↗
    No road is long with good company.
  • 同情どうじょうJLPT N1approx.Common
    noun, suru verb, intransitive verbEssentially 'sympathy' or 'compassion', with pity as one of its senses. It is the everyday word for feeling sorry for someone's misfortune, without the condescension that 哀れむ can imply.
    彼かれのことを同情どうじょうせずにはいられない。↗
    I cannot but feel sorry for him.

For the feeling use the noun 「哀れ」 or 「情け」, for sympathy toward someone use 同情, and for the act of pitying choose the verb 「哀れむ」 or the caring 「いたわる」.

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