Friends: inviting & declining
Making weekend plans with a friend — your first time using plain form (タメ口) instead of です・ます.
What this page practisesinviting with 〜ない? · saying yes right away · declining gently with ちょっと... · rescheduling for another day · colloquial contractions and omissions
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Six lines to invite or decline
The usual routine between friends: inviting someone out, accepting, gently declining, and setting another time.
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Are you free this Sunday?
「今度」 refers to the upcoming “this time/next time,” not “last time”; a plain-form question drops 「か」 and 「です」, relying entirely on the rising intonation at the end.
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Wanna go karaoke?
「行かない?」 is literally a negative, but with a rising tone it reads as an invitation, “wanna go?” — the go-to sentence pattern friends use to invite each other out; in casual speech the particle in 「カラオケ(に)行く」 is often dropped.
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いいね、行く行く!
Sounds good, let's go, let's go!
Saying the verb twice in a row is a colloquial way to agree readily, and it's only used with people you're very close to.
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Sorry, that day's not so great for me...
Saying just 「ちょっと...」 is already a complete refusal, no need to finish the reason; and when you hear this line, don't press the speaker for what the ちょっと was about.
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Ask me again next time.
Adding this line after declining helps keep the relationship intact; but when someone says 「また今度」 to you, it may just be a polite phrase, so don't take it seriously and chase them to set a date.
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So, Sunday at noon, in front of the station.
Friends often leave the verb out entirely when making plans — 「駅前で(会おう)」 — a sentence that stops at 「で」 already counts as complete.
Inviting a friend to a movie
A complete invitation exchange: your first suggestion gets a polite no, you offer a different day, and the plan is on.
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the one inviting
Hey, want to go see a movie Friday night?
「ねえ」 is a greeting friends use to open a conversation; with people you're not close with, switch to 「あの、すみません」.
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The one being invited
Friday, huh... Sorry, I've got a shift that night.
「入ってて」 is a contraction of 「入っていて」; the sentence stops at 「て」, and the reason is already fully conveyed — that's the norm in speech, not a sentence left unfinished.
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the one inviting
Oh, I see. What about Saturday, then?
そっか is the casual contraction of そうか, the lightest aizuchi (backchannel) between friends.
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The one being invited
Saturday works for me. What are we watching?
「なら」picks up on what the other person just said and means "if it's ..."; the sentence-final 「の?」 is a common way to ask a question in plain form.
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the one inviting
A new anime movie. I heard it's really good.
「らしい」= 'apparently' or 'I heard' for info picked up from someone else; sentence-final 「よ」 adds new information the listener doesn't know.
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The one being invited
Nice. Then LINE me once the time's set.
「〜して」 is the friendly version of the request 「してください」 with 「ください」 dropped; the particle in 「時間(が)決まったら」 is omitted as usual.
Audio on this page is AI-synthesized speech (Gemini 3.1 Flash TTS), not a human recording; the sentences are original.


