触れ合う・触れあう|ふれあうfureau[3]nakadaka (mid-high)

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Which spelling to use
触れ合う触れ合う is the most common written form and the usual choice when you need to write this word.
触れあう触れあう is a less common written variant of 触れ合う; you may encounter it, but it is not the first choice for learners.
Definitions
  1. godan verb, intransitive verbto come into contact with; to touch (each other); to have a brush with
    彼かれには子供こどもと触れ合ふれあう時間じかんがなかった。↗
    He didn't have time to spend with his children.
Conjugation
Dictionary form触れ合う(ふれあう)
Polite (masu)触れ合います(ふれあいます)
Negative (nai)触れ合わない(ふれあわない)
polite (masen)触れ合いません(ふれあいません)
classical zu / nu触れ合わず・触れ合わぬ(ふれあわず・ふれあわぬ)
Past (ta)触れ合った(ふれあった)
polite (mashita)触れ合いました(ふれあいました)
Past negative (nakatta)触れ合わなかった(ふれあわなかった)
polite (masen deshita)触れ合いませんでした(ふれあいませんでした)
Te form触れ合って(ふれあって)
Potential触れ合える(ふれあえる)
Passive触れ合われる(ふれあわれる)
Causative触れ合わせる(ふれあわせる)
Causative passive触れ合わせられる・触れ合わされる(ふれあわせられる・ふれあわされる)
Conditional (ba)触れ合えば(ふれあえば)
tara触れ合ったら(ふれあったら)
Volitional触れ合おう(ふれあおう)
polite (mashou)触れ合いましょう(ふれあいましょう)
Imperative触れ合え(ふれあえ)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym接触せっしょくNeutralCovers physical contact between objects and dealings with people, in a plain, objective way; 「触れ合う」 stresses mutuality and the warmth of exchange.
  • Synonym接するせっするNeutralA verb for touching or bordering on something, and for dealing with people as in 「客に接する」; it focuses on facing or attending to someone, not mutual closeness.
  • RelatedタッチNeutralA colloquial loanword for touching or tapping a screen, also for being involved; it carries none of the warm exchange implied by 「触れ合う」.
  • Related触るさわるNeutralMeans touching or handling something with the hand; the touching is one-sided, done by you, whereas 「触れ合う」 is mutual.
  • Related触れるふれるNeutralMeans lightly touching something, and also coming into contact with nature or culture; it works for one-way or mutual contact, but 「触れ合う」 stresses the mutual side more.
  • Antonym遠ざかるとおざかるNeutralAntonym: to move gradually away or drift apart, the opposite of close, intimate contact.
  • Antonym離れるはなれるNeutralAntonym: to separate or part from something or someone, the opposite of mutual contact.

Use 「触れ合う」 for mutual contact or warm heart-to-heart exchange, as in 「動物と触れ合う」 and 「心の触れ合い」. For plain touching choose 「触れる」 or 「触る」, for objective contact 「接触」, and for the opposite 「離れる」.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 互たがいに触ふれる。
  2. 親したしく交まじわる。親交しんこうする。
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