How to say "madam" in Japanese

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  • マダムCommon
    nounCovers 'madam' itself: a married woman, lady, or housewife. A Western-style way to address or refer to such a woman, as when salon or boutique staff greet a female customer this way.
  • 夫人ふじんJLPT N3approx.Common
    noun, noun (suffix)The respectful word for another person's wife, matching 'Mrs' and 'Madam'. Use it to refer politely to someone's wife — a colleague's or an official's, for instance — or to address a married lady.
    ヤング夫人ふじんは、私が突然とつぜん訪たずねても気きにしないでしょう。↗
    Mrs. Young wouldn't mind my dropping in on her unexpectedly.
  • 奥様おくさまCommon
    nounA polite way to refer to 'your wife' or 'his wife' and to address a married lady, as when shop or restaurant staff speak of or to a customer's wife.
    奥様おくさまにどうかよろしくお伝つたえください。↗
    Send my greetings to your wife.
  • 奥さんおくさんJLPT N5approx.Common
    nounA respectful word for someone else's wife — 'your wife' or 'his wife' — also used to address a married lady directly, as when greeting a neighbor or the wife of the family next door.
    彼かれは奥おくさんが怖こわかった。↗
    He was afraid of his wife.

For the borrowed 'madam' — a married lady or housewife — use 「マダム」; use 夫人 for the respectful 'Mrs' or 'Madam' about someone's wife; 奥様 and 「奥さん」 both cover 'your/his wife' and addressing a married lady.

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