How to say "mourn" in Japanese
- 悔やむくやむgodan verb, transitive verbMourning in the sense of grieving over a death and lamenting the loss, as when offering condolences; the verb also means to regret or repent, so context distinguishes the senses.
- 悼むいたむgodan verb, transitive verbThe natural choice for mourning a person's death: grieving over the deceased and feeling or expressing that sorrow, as at a funeral.
- 憂えるうれえるichidan verb, transitive verb, intransitive verbSeldom the word you want for mourning a death; its sorrow is really directed at a situation or state of affairs, with a nuance of anxiety over how things may go.
「悼む」 is the direct verb for mourning someone's death; 「悔やむ」 likewise mourns the dead, especially in condolences, but also means to regret; 「憂える」 expresses sorrow or anxiety over a situation rather than a death.
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