How to say "partner" in Japanese

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  • 相手あいてJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounThe person on the other side of an interaction — someone you talk, play or compete with. It can also mean an opponent, so it suits 'partner' in senses like a game or conversation partner.
    あなたのダンスの相手あいてはだれですか。↗
    Who is your dance partner?
  • 相棒あいぼうCommon
    nounA close partner in some activity or scheme — the buddy at your side, as in detective duos or crime pairs. It also covers 'accomplice', and often carries a tone of trust or camaraderie.
    こいつ、さっきまで俺おれの相棒あいぼうだったのに、もう寝返ねがえりやがった。↗
    This rat, up until just now he was my partner and now he's gone and turned on me.
  • 伴侶はんりょCommon
    nounA partner in the sense of a spouse or mate for life — the person one shares a life with. This is the word for 'partner' when talking about a husband, wife, or lifelong companion.
    二人ふたりは伴侶はんりょ三さん人にんは仲間割なかまわれ。↗
    Two is company, but three is none.
  • 同類どうるいCommon
    no-adjectiveReally means 'the same kind (of person)'; its 'partner' sense is an accomplice or cohort, often with a critical nuance. Seldom the word you want for an ordinary partner.
    石炭せきたんは化学的かがくてきにダイヤと同類どうるいである。↗
    Coal is chemically allied to diamonds.
  • 仲間なかまJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounA companion, mate or fellow member of a group — friends, teammates, comrades. It expresses belonging to a group rather than a one-to-one pairing, so it is not the usual choice for a two-person 'partner'.
    田中たなかさんは父ちちのつり仲間なかまの一人ひとりだ。↗
    Mr. Tanaka is one of my father's fishing companions.

Use 相手 for the person on the other side of an interaction, 相棒 for a close working partner, 伴侶 for a spouse or life companion, 仲間 for a group companion, and 同類 mainly for 'someone of the same kind'.

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