How to say "pathetic" in Japanese
Choosing the right word
- na-adjective, nounUse it when 'pathetic' means pitiable — a person, animal, or situation that arouses pity and sympathy; the reaction is compassion rather than contempt.
- 悲愴ひそうna-adjective, nounMatches 'pathetic' in its sense of sorrowful and grievous: a scene or expression filled with tragic sorrow. It is not the word for the contemptuous 'pathetic' that means lame or contemptible.
- 哀切あいせつna-adjective, nounCovers 'pathetic' as plaintive: a poignant, sorrowful quality that stirs the heart. Seldom the word you want for everyday 'pathetic'; it really describes plaintive sadness, not pity or contempt.
- 痛々しいいたいたしいi-adjectiveCovers 'pathetic' as pitiful to look at: a person or sight whose condition is painful to watch. The pity here comes from the sight itself being hard to bear.
- i-adjectiveThe colloquial word for the contemptuous 'pathetic (behaviour)': conduct that is lame or uncool. Since it basically means unfashionable or unstylish, it fits when 'pathetic' is a put-down rather than an expression of pity.
For 'pathetic' that arouses pity choose 「かわいそう」, or 「痛々しい」 when the sight itself is painful to watch; for sorrowful or plaintive 'pathetic' choose 悲愴 or 哀切; and for the contemptuous 'lame' sense, colloquial 「ダサい」.
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