How to say "prefer" in Japanese
- 好むこのむgodan verb, transitive verbCovers the plain sense of 'prefer': to like or favor one thing over another. Use it for your own or others' tastes in neutral description, as in stating what someone tends to prefer.
- お気に召すおきにめすexpression, godan verbAlso glossed 'to prefer', but it is honorific (sonkeigo) language used to describe a superior's likes politely. It is seldom the word you want for plain 'prefer'; reach for it only in respectful speech about someone else.
Use 「好む」 for the everyday sense of preferring or liking one thing over another; use 「お気に召す」 only when speaking respectfully about someone else's likes or preferences.
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