How to say "sex" in Japanese

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  • セックスJLPT N1approx.Common
    noun, suru verb, intransitive verbThe everyday loanword for the act itself — sex or sexual intercourse — used plainly in ordinary conversation when there is no need to sound clinical or indirect.
    今いまではセックスの話はなしをすることは顔かおを赤あからめることではなくなった。↗
    Now talking about sex is no blushing affair.
  • 性交せいこうCommon
    noun, suru verb, intransitive verbThe formal, clinical word for sexual intercourse; it suits medical, legal, and academic contexts and sounds stiff in casual talk.
    性交せいこうの最中さいちゅう彼女かのじょはつまらなそうな顔かおをしていた。↗
    She looked bored while we were making love.
  • 性せいJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounSex or gender as an attribute — whether a person or animal is male or female — not the act; it is the word of forms, records, and biological or demographic description.
  • 仲良しなかよしJLPT N2approx.Common
    noun, suru verb, intransitive verbNormally means being on good terms or close friends; as a colloquial euphemism it can refer to sex or intimate relations, hinting indirectly rather than naming the act.

Use 「セックス」 for the act in everyday speech, 性交 in formal or clinical contexts, 性 only for sex as a male-or-female classification, and 「仲良し」 just as a colloquial euphemism.

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