懇意|こんいkon'i[1]atamadaka (head-high)
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- noun, na-adjectivefriendship; (on) familiar terms; intimacy
- noun, na-adjectivekindness; goodwill
Conjugation
| Plain form | 懇意(こんい) |
|---|---|
| Polite (desu) | 懇意です(こんいです) |
| Negative (dewa nai) | 懇意ではない(こんいではない) |
| polite (dewa arimasen) | 懇意ではありません(こんいではありません) |
| Past (datta) | 懇意だった(こんいだった) |
| Past negative (dewa nakatta) | 懇意ではなかった(こんいではなかった) |
| Te form (de) | 懇意で(こんいで) |
| Adverbial (ni) | 懇意に(こんいに) |
| Conditional (nara) | 懇意なら(こんいなら) |
Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.
- Synonym親密しんみつWrittenWritten. Stresses a very deep relationship and can also describe ties between countries; more objective than 「懇意」.
- Synonym親しいしたしいNeutralNeutral and the most common everyday word for being close; more colloquial than 「懇意」, and it does not carry the nuance of receiving someone's kindness.
- Synonym別懇べっこんWrittenWritten and rare. Emphasizes that a friendship is exceptionally deep.
- Synonym昵懇じっこんWrittenWritten. Means very intimate; mostly seen in the phrase 「昵懇の間柄」.
- Related気安いきやすいNeutralNeutral. About feeling relaxed and at ease with someone; it does not stress long years of familiar association.
- Related手厚いてあついWrittenWritten. About warm, attentive treatment or hospitality, not a description of the relationship between two people.
- Related親しみ深いしたしみぶかいWrittenWritten but rare. Focuses on the warm, approachable impression a person's character gives, not on an established relationship.
- Related懇篤こんとくWrittenWritten and rare. Emphasizes sincere, attentive treatment of others rather than the closeness of a relationship.
- RelatedねんごろWrittenWritten with an old-fashioned, literary air. Covers both sincere, attentive treatment and an intimate relationship.
- Related友好的ゆうこうてきWrittenWritten. Friendly attitudes or relations, usable for countries and groups as well as individuals; 「懇意」 stresses a close personal tie kept up over time.
- Related近しいちかしいWrittenWritten. Mostly seen as 「近しい人」, referring to people one is close to.
- Related細やかこまやかWrittenWritten. Highlights thoughtful, meticulous care, as in 「細やかな気配り」.
- Related親しみやすいしたしみやすいNeutralNeutral. Describes an approachable personality that is easy to get close to, not an existing friendship.
- Related心安いこころやすいNeutralNeutral but rare in speech. Describes a relationship close enough that no formality or reserve is needed.
- Antonym疎遠そえんWrittenWritten antonym: estranged, with little contact — the exact opposite of the close ties of 「懇意」.
Use 「懇意」 for a close, familiar personal relationship, as in 「懇意にしている」 or 「ご懇意に願います」. For everyday closeness choose 「親しい」; in written or formal prose, 「親密」 is the word for intimacy. The others are narrower — rare written terms, or words for friendliness, warmth and ease rather than a long-standing tie; 「疎遠」 is the antonym.
Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only


