語らい|かたらいkatarai[3]nakadaka (mid-high)

Common
Definitions
  1. nountalk; chat
  2. nountroth; lovers' vow
Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym会話かいわNeutralThe most general word for conversation, with an objective feel; 「語らい」 suggests a warm heart-to-heart between close people.
  • SynonymトークNeutralA loanword for talk and talk shows, as in 「トーク番組」; it has an entertainment flavor and lacks the intimacy of 「語らい」.
  • Synonym談話だんわWrittenWritten in flavor; means conversation but also an informal statement, as in 「首相談話」. 「語らい」 is a warm heart-to-heart between intimates.
  • Related話はなしNeutralThe most general word for talk; it also covers topics and discussion, but carries none of the warm heart-to-heart nuance of 「語らい」.
  • RelatedおしゃべりCasualColloquial for idle chat or gossip, and for a chatterbox; light and casual, while 「語らい」 is a warm heart-to-heart between close people.
  • RelatedしゃべりCasualColloquial, referring to one's way of speaking, often as 「喋りが上手い」; it is about speaking skill and lacks the warmth of 「語らい」.
  • Related談だんWrittenWritten style; mostly a combining form in words like 「対談」 and 「談笑」. On its own it is far less natural than 「語らい」.
  • Antonym沈黙ちんもくNeutralAntonym: not speaking, keeping silent; it can also mean inaction in a situation, standing opposite the talking-together of 「語らい」.
  • Antonym無言むごんWrittenThe same word 「しじま」, stressing a soundless hush all around; it is also written 「沈黙」 or 「無言」. Opposite of 「語らい」 with its constant talk and laughter.
  • AntonymしじまWrittenAn elegant native word read 「しじま」 for the stillness when all is quiet, mostly in poetry and prose, as in 「夜のしじま」; opposite to the voices of 「語らい」.

For everyday conversation use 「会話」 and for casual chat 「おしゃべり」. 「語らい」 is for warm, intimate heart-to-heart talks with family, friends or a lover, as in 「家族の語らい」 or 「楽しい語らいのひととき」. For silence, say 「沈黙」.

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Japanese definitions
  1. 二人ふたり以上いじょうの人ひとが一緒いっしょに話はなしをすること。おしゃべり。
  2. 恋人こいびと同士どうしが愛あいを誓ちかう言葉ことば。愛あいの約束やくそく。
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