How to say "engagement" in Japanese

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  • 婚約こんやくJLPT N3approx.Common
    suru verb, intransitive verb, no-adjectiveCovers only the marriage sense: an agreement to marry, a betrothal. Use it for getting engaged, an engagement ring, or calling off an engagement — never for a busy schedule or a battle.
    とうとう私の姉あねは婚約こんやくした。↗
    Finally, my sister got engaged.
  • 用事ようじJLPT N4approx.Common
    nounThe everyday word for a personal engagement: something you have to do, whether an errand or an appointment. Use it when you must decline an invitation because you are otherwise occupied.
    私は街まちに用事ようじがある。↗
    I have an errand to do in town.
  • 用ようJLPT N4approx.Common
    nounAlso means a task, errand, or engagement, but on its own it is largely confined to set expressions; for the everyday 'something to do' sense, 用事 is usually the word to reach for.
    何なんの用ようでここに来きたのですか。↗
    What has brought you here?
  • 所用しょようCommon
    nounAnother word for business or an engagement to attend to, with a formal, written flavor; it suits polite notices or excuses for being unavailable because of personal affairs.
  • 合戦かっせんCommon
    noun, suru verb, intransitive verbThe military sense only: a battle, a clash between armies — an 'engagement' in the military sense. It is never the word for a social appointment or a promise to marry.

For a promise to marry use 婚約; for a personal appointment or errand use 用事 (or the more formal 所用); 用 appears mostly in set expressions; 合戦 is only the military sense of a battle.

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