How to say "friend" in Japanese

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  • 友達ともだちJLPT N5approx.Common
    nounThe default word for a friend in everyday conversation; covers the general sense of a person you know well and like. Safe choice in most contexts.
    犬いぬは人間にんげんの最もっとも親したしい友達ともだちである。↗
    Dogs are man's closest friends.
  • 味方みかたJLPT N3approx.Common
    no-adjectiveNot a personal friend in the usual sense but an ally or supporter: someone on your side in a conflict, debate, or competition. Often the word you want is actually 友達 for 'friend'.
    私は民主主義みんしゅしゅぎの味方みかただ。↗
    I am on the side of democracy.
  • 友人ゆうじんJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounAlso means simply 'friend', with a somewhat more formal or written flavor than 友達. Common in announcements, introductions, and polite speech.
    私の友人ゆうじんの1人ひとりが私に会あいにきました。↗
    A friend of mine came to see me.
  • 仲間なかまJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounCovers a comrade, mate, or fellow member of a group or shared activity rather than a close personal friend. Choose it when the emphasis is on belonging together, as in teammates or colleagues.
    田中たなかさんは父ちちのつり仲間なかまの一人ひとりだ。↗
    Mr. Tanaka is one of my father's fishing companions.
  • nounA loanword meaning 'friend', used chiefly for contacts on social media, games, and other online services. For an ordinary friend in speech, 友達 or 友人 is normally the better choice.

Use 友達 for an everyday friend, 友人 for a slightly more formal friend, 味方 for someone on your side, 仲間 for a comrade or group member, and 「フレンド」 mainly for online or game friends.

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