付き合う|つきあうtsukiau[3]nakadaka (mid-high)

JLPT N2approx.Common
Definitions
  1. godan verb, intransitive verbto associate with; to keep company with; to go out with; to go steady with; to get on with
    佐知子さちこさんと付き合つきあっているの?↗
    Are you going out with Sachiko?
  2. godan verb, intransitive verbto go along with; to follow someone's lead; to accompany someone; to compromise
    一杯いっぱい付き合つきあいませんか。↗
    Would you join me in a drink?
Conjugation
Dictionary form付き合う(つきあう)
Polite (masu)付き合います(つきあいます)
Negative (nai)付き合わない(つきあわない)
polite (masen)付き合いません(つきあいません)
classical zu / nu付き合わず・付き合わぬ(つきあわず・つきあわぬ)
Past (ta)付き合った(つきあった)
polite (mashita)付き合いました(つきあいました)
Past negative (nakatta)付き合わなかった(つきあわなかった)
polite (masen deshita)付き合いませんでした(つきあいませんでした)
Te form付き合って(つきあって)
Potential付き合える(つきあえる)
Passive付き合われる(つきあわれる)
Causative付き合わせる(つきあわせる)
Causative passive付き合わせられる・付き合わされる(つきあわせられる・つきあわされる)
Conditional (ba)付き合えば(つきあえば)
tara付き合ったら(つきあったら)
Volitional付き合おう(つきあおう)
polite (mashou)付き合いましょう(つきあいましょう)
Imperative付き合え(つきあえ)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym交際するWrittenFormal, written-style verb for associating with people or dating someone; 「付き合う」 is the more colloquial everyday choice and can also mean keeping someone company.
  • Related交際こうさいWrittenWritten-style noun for socializing and association, also romantic relationships, as in 「交際相手」; 「付き合う」 is more colloquial.
  • Related行き来ゆききNeutralRefers to mutual visiting and keeping in touch, and also to street traffic; 「付き合う」 centers on the relationship itself.
  • Antonym離れるはなれるNeutralAntonym in terms of closeness: to part from someone or grow distant from them.
  • Antonym無視するNeutralAntonym in terms of whether you engage with someone: to ignore them or pay them no attention.

Default to 「付き合う」 for socializing, dating, or keeping someone company; it is the everyday, conversational choice. In formal or written prose use 「交際する」/「交際」; 「行き来」 is for mutual visits and street traffic. Antonyms: 「無視する」 (ignore), 「離れる」 (drift apart).

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 人ひとと親したしく交際こうさいしたり、恋人こいびととして関係かんけいを持もったりする
  2. 相手あいての意見いけんや行動こうどうに合あわせて、一緒いっしょに行動こうどうする
Kanji in this word

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