間柄・間がら|あいだがらaidagara[0]heiban (flat)

JLPT N1approx.Common
Which spelling to use
間柄間柄 is the most common spelling; it is written entirely in kanji and is the form beginners should normally use.
間がら間がら is a less common kanji-kana spelling of 間柄; you may encounter it, but it is not the first choice for beginners.
Definitions
  1. nounrelationship; relation; terms (good, friendly, etc.)
    君きみと彼かれとはどういう間柄あいだがらなのだ。↗
    What's your relation with him?
Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym仲なかNeutralCommon in speech, often with good or bad: 「仲がいい」, 「仲が悪い」. 「間柄」 also covers personal terms but adds status ties like kinship and sounds a bit more formal.
  • Synonym関係かんけいNeutralThe broadest term: it works for relations between people or between things. 「間柄」 is limited to the relationship or terms between people.
  • Synonym結びつきむすびつきNeutralFocuses on how tight a tie is, and applies to people, regions or things, as in 「強い結びつき」; 「間柄」 is confined to relations between people.
  • Synonym人間関係にんげんかんけいNeutralRelations and dealings among people in an organization or society at large, as in 「人間関係に悩む」; 「間柄」 usually speaks of one specific pair.
  • Related絆きずなNeutralAn emotional bond between people that is hard to break, with a warm feel, as in 「家族の絆」; 「間柄」 simply states the relationship or how close two people are.
  • RelatedつながりNeutralA link that ties things together; usable for people or things alike. 「間柄」 covers only relationships and terms between people.
  • RelatedコネCasualColloquial for connections you can use, often implying gain through contacts; 「間柄」 only describes the relationship itself, with no sense of leveraging it.
  • RelatedコネクションNeutralCovers general connections as well as useful contacts, and is more neutral than 「コネ」; 「間柄」 refers strictly to relations between people.
  • Related関わりかかわりNeutralStresses involvement or connection, as in 「事件との関わり」, and its object need not be a person; 「間柄」 speaks of relations between people.
  • RelatedリレーションNeutralA loanword for relations or association, heard mostly in business and other specialized settings and rare in daily talk; for personal terms use 「間柄」.
  • Related関わり合いかかわりあいNeutralMutual involvement or influence, often with a nuance of being unwillingly entangled, as in 「関わり合いになる」; 「間柄」 merely states a relationship.

To state the relationship or closeness between two people, use 「間柄」, as in 「親子の間柄」 or 「親しい間柄」. In everyday speech 「仲」 is the usual choice; for relations in general, including between things, use 「関係」, and for useful contacts say 「コネ」.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 親戚しんせき又または姻族いんぞくの関係かんけい、続柄つづきがら。
  2. 互たがいの関係かんけい、交まじわり、交際こうさい、仲なか。
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