お父さん|おとうさんotousan[2]nakadaka (mid-high)
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- nounfather; dad; papa; pa; pop; daddy; dada
- nounhusband
- pronounyou (of an elderly person older than the speaker); he; him
- Synonym父ちちNeutralUsed when mentioning your own father to outsiders, as in 「父は会社員です」; natural in both speech and writing, but generally not for direct address.
- Synonym父親ちちおやNeutralRefers to a person in the role of father, leaning toward objective description as in 「父親として」; not used to address someone.
- Synonym父さんとうさんCasualMore casual than 「お父さん」; used mostly for direct address among family members.
- SynonymおやじWrittenRead 「しんぷ」, a stiff written Sino-Japanese word for father; almost never used in speech and not used as a form of address.
- Synonymお父様おとうさまFormalMore respectful than 「お父さん」; often used to address another person's father or in upper-class families.
- Synonym父上ちちうえFormalA solemn honorific, seen mostly in period dramas or old-fashioned families; rare in everyday use.
- Related親父しんぷWrittenRead 「しんぷ」, a stiff written Sino-Japanese word for father; almost never used in speech and not used as a form of address.
- Related男親おとこおやWrittenMeans a male parent, the counterpart of 「女親」; leans toward written, descriptive use.
- RelatedファーザーCasualA loanword not used in daily life; appears mostly in the religious term 「神父」 or in titles of works.
- Antonymお母さんおかあさんNeutralThe counterpart of 「お父さん」, meaning mother; the two are used in matching ways of address.
Call your own father 「お父さん」 by default; step up to 「お父様」 for extra respect, or use 「父さん」 for casual family address. When talking to outsiders say 「父」, and for objective description use 「父親」. 「父上」 is old-fashioned, 「親父」 (「しんぷ」) is stiff written prose, 「男親」 is a written term for a male parent, and 「ファーザー」 shows up mainly in 「神父」 or work titles. For mother, use 「お母さん」.
Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only


