恨み・怨み・憾み|うらみurami[3]odaka (tail-high)

1. nounresentment; grudge; malice; bitterness
   リサはスタンに恨うらみがある。↗

   Lisa bears a grudge against Stan.
2. nounmatter for regret; regretesp. 憾み

• Synonym遺恨いこんWrittenWritten/formal prose: an old grudge built up over time, as in 「遺恨を残す」. 「恨み」 is the general word for resentment.
• Synonym怨念おんねんWrittenWritten/formal prose: a deep, festering grudge, often with ghostly or obsessive overtones. 「恨み」 is the general term, for mild and deep alike.
• Synonym怨恨えんこんWrittenWritten/formal prose for resentment, at home in writing; 「恨み」 is more colloquial.
• Synonym私怨しえんWrittenWritten/formal prose: a personal grudge, stressing its private nature. 「恨み」 is not limited to private matters.
• Synonym怨讐おんしゅうWrittenWritten/formal prose with an archaic flavor: deep-seated hatred or a hated enemy. 「恨み」 is more everyday.
• Related憤りいきどおりNeutralNeutral: indignation or resentment, usually over injustice. 「恨み」 usually targets a personal wrong.
• Related憎しみにくしみNeutralNeutral: hatred, stressing dislike or loathing of the other person. 「恨み」 stresses holding a grudge.
• Related憤慨ふんがいNeutralNeutral: strong indignation, stressing the anger and displeasure itself. 「恨み」 stresses bearing a grudge after being hurt.
• Related悪意あくいNeutralNeutral: malice or ill will, stressing the intent to harm. 「恨み」 is the resentment felt after being hurt.
• Related仇あだNeutralNeutral: a foe or deep enmity, as in 「仇を討つ」, and also harm, as in 「恩を仇で返す」. 「恨み」 is the feeling of resentment itself.
• Related悪気わるぎNeutralNeutral: deliberate ill intent, mostly in the negative 「悪気はない」. 「恨み」 stresses holding a grudge.
• Related鬱憤うっぷんNeutralNeutral: pent-up frustration and resentment one wants to vent. 「恨み」 stresses holding a grudge after being hurt.
• Related憤怒ふんぬWrittenWritten/formal prose: intense anger, momentary or lasting, focused on the rage itself. 「恨み」 stresses bearing a grudge after being hurt.
• Related憤懣ふんまんWrittenWritten/formal prose: anger and discontent bottled up inside, stressing suppressed frustration. 「恨み」 stresses grudge-holding after being hurt and can also mean regret.
• Related意趣遺恨いしゅいこんWrittenWritten/formal prose: a four-character compound for accumulated rancor and hatred, heavier in tone than 「恨み」.
• Related悪念あくねんWrittenWritten/formal prose: evil or malicious thoughts. 「恨み」 is resentment itself.
• Related意趣いしゅWrittenWritten/formal prose: a grudge, but also intention or disposition. 「恨み」 is more common.
• Related慨嘆がいたんWrittenWritten/formal prose: lamenting over the times or a situation. 「恨み」 is resentment toward a person, or a matter for regret.
• Related毒気どっきNeutralNeutral: malice or spite, and literally poison gas, as in 「毒気を抜かれる」. 「恨み」 is resentment.
• Related怨嗟えんさWrittenWritten/formal prose, literary: deep resentment voiced as bitter complaint. 「恨み」 is the ordinary word.
• Related邪気じゃきNeutralNeutral: malice or a noxious aura, also disease-causing miasma. 「恨み」 is the resentment felt after being hurt.
• Antonym感謝かんしゃNeutralNeutral: gratitude — the opposite of 「恨み」, which resents someone.

「恨み」 is the default word for resentment toward someone who has wronged you, as in 「恨みを買う」. For an old, long-carried grudge say 「遺恨」; for a deep, obsessive one 「怨念」; for pent-up frustration 「鬱憤」; for indignation at injustice 「憤り」; for hatred of the person 「憎しみ」. Many others here are written or formal words (怨恨, 怨讐, 怨嗟, 憤怒, 憤懣, 意趣遺恨) or narrower terms like 「悪意」 and 「悪気」 for malice. The antonym is 「感謝」.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

1. 恨うらむこと。また、その心こころ。怨恨えんこん。
2. 【憾うらみ】残念ざんねんに思おもう点てん。欠点けってん。