渡り合う|わたりあうwatariau[4]nakadaka (mid-high)

Common
Definitions
  1. godan verb, intransitive verbto fight (with); to cross swords; to compete (with)
    私と互角ごかくで渡り合わたりあえる女の子おんなのこでなければだめだ。↗
    The girl has to match me in skill.
  2. godan verb, intransitive verbto argue (with); to have an argument; to have a dispute; to debate
Conjugation
Dictionary form渡り合う(わたりあう)
Polite (masu)渡り合います(わたりあいます)
Negative (nai)渡り合わない(わたりあわない)
polite (masen)渡り合いません(わたりあいません)
classical zu / nu渡り合わず・渡り合わぬ(わたりあわず・わたりあわぬ)
Past (ta)渡り合った(わたりあった)
polite (mashita)渡り合いました(わたりあいました)
Past negative (nakatta)渡り合わなかった(わたりあわなかった)
polite (masen deshita)渡り合いませんでした(わたりあいませんでした)
Te form渡り合って(わたりあって)
Potential渡り合える(わたりあえる)
Passive渡り合われる(わたりあわれる)
Causative渡り合わせる(わたりあわせる)
Causative passive渡り合わせられる・渡り合わされる(わたりあわせられる・わたりあわされる)
Conditional (ba)渡り合えば(わたりあえば)
tara渡り合ったら(わたりあったら)
Volitional渡り合おう(わたりあおう)
polite (mashou)渡り合いましょう(わたりあいましょう)
Imperative渡り合え(わたりあえ)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym争うあらそうWrittenThe same word again, also written 「争う」 and read 「あらがう」. Written style for resisting or defying, one-sided rather than a matched contest.
  • SynonymやりあうCasualColloquial. Quarreling or competing with each other; more casual than 「渡り合う」 and without the nuance of being evenly matched.
  • Related言い合ういいあうNeutralExchanging words with each other, or bickering. Lighter than 「渡り合う」— trading remarks rather than clashing head-on.
  • Related論じるろんじるWrittenWritten style. Discussing or expounding a topic in an organized way; no quarreling implied, unlike 「渡り合う」.
  • Related論ずるろんずるFormalThe formal counterpart of 「論じる」: stating one's views or debating, in a more formal register.
  • Related言い争ういいあらそうNeutralA quarrel fought with words, neither side giving in. More a verbal squabble than 「渡り合う」, lacking the feel of a head-on clash.
  • Related抗うあらがうWrittenWritten style. Resisting or defying something like fate or authority — one-sided resistance, not an even, head-on contest as with 「渡り合う」.
  • Related諍ういさかうWrittenThe same word as above, also written 「諍う」. Written style for one-sided resistance or defiance, not a matched contest.
  • Related論じ合うろんじあうWrittenWritten style. Both sides exchange opinions in a debate to settle which is right; an argument over issues rather than the confrontation of 「渡り合う」.
  • Antonym逃げるにげるNeutralAntonym: running away or fleeing, avoiding the opponent instead of facing them head-on as 「渡り合う」 describes.
  • Antonym避けるさけるNeutralAntonym: avoiding or steering clear of contact altogether, the opposite of meeting someone head-on in 「渡り合う」.

Use 「渡り合う」 for facing an opponent head-on, competing on even terms, or arguing heatedly, as in 「大国と渡り合う」「互角に渡り合う」. For a plain quarrel use 「言い争う」, and in casual speech 「やり合う」. 「言い合う」 is lighter bickering; 「抗う」 is one-sided resistance; 「論じる」「論ずる」「論じ合う」 cover discussion and debate; 「逃げる」「避ける」 are the opposites — avoiding the fight.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. お互たがいに争あらそう。
  2. 激論げきろんを交かわす。論争ろんそうする。
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