How to say "dear" in Japanese

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  • 懐かしいなつかしいJLPT N2approx.Common
    i-adjectiveCovers 'dear' in the sense of an old, fondly remembered person, place, or time; the feeling is nostalgia and longing. Use it for one's hometown, school days, or a childhood friend one misses.
    懐なつかしい12小節しょうせつのブルース。↗
    There go the twelve bars blues.
  • 愛しいいとしいCommon
    i-adjectiveCovers 'dear' as an outpouring of affection: a beloved or darling person held close to the heart. It voices tender, emotional attachment — the way one speaks or thinks of someone deeply loved.
    少女しょうじょは人形にんぎょうをいとしげに抱き締だきしめた。↗
    The girl squeezed her doll affectionately.
  • 拝啓はいけいJLPT N1approx.Common
    nounThis is 'Dear' only as the salutation that opens a formal letter: Dear Sir, Dear Madam, or Dear (so and so). It is never used for the emotional senses; it belongs to correspondence alone.
  • あなたJLPT N5approx.Common
    pronounHere あなた is the familiar endearment 'dear' or 'honey', used between spouses or partners as a term of address. The word is usually written in kana alone, and it also serves as the ordinary pronoun 'you'.
  • かわいいJLPT N5approx.Common
    i-adjectiveCovers 'dear' in the sense of endearing and adorable: a dear little child, a pet, or anything precious and cute. The emphasis is on charm and cuteness rather than deep affection.
    私にとって子供こどもたちは目めの中なかに入いれてもいたくないほどかわいいのです。↗
    My children are very precious to me.

There is no single Japanese 'dear': 「懐かしい」 is for fondly missed old things, 「愛しい」 for beloved people, 拝啓 opens formal letters, 「あなた」 addresses one's partner, and 「かわいい」 means endearingly cute.

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