出会い・出合い・出逢い・出会・出合・出遭い|であいdeai[0]heiban (flat)

JLPT N3approx.Common
Which spelling to use
出会い出会い is the most common written form. It combines kanji and kana and is the form beginners should use for this meaning.
出逢い出逢い is less common than 出会い. It is written with kanji and kana and may appear as an alternative written form.
出合い出合い is less common than 出会い and 出逢い. It is written with kanji and kana and is another alternative written form.
出会出会 is less common than 出会い, 出逢い, and 出合い. It is written entirely in kanji and may be encountered in writing.
出合出合 is less common than 出会い, 出逢い, 出合い, and 出会. It is written entirely in kanji and is an alternative written form.
出遭い出遭い is the least common of these forms. It combines kanji and kana and may be encountered as an alternative written form.
Definitions
  1. nounmeeting; rendezvous; encounter
    私わたしたちの出会であいはまったくの偶然ぐうぜんでした。↗
    Our meeting was quite accidental.
  2. nounmeeting for the first time; coming across
  3. nounconfluenceesp. 出合い, 出合
Synonyms & antonyms
  • SynonymエンカウンターNeutralA neutral loanword for an encounter; also used for random battles in games and encounter groups in psychology.
  • Related鉢合わせはちあわせCasualColloquial: an unlucky bumping-into, often awkward. 「出会い」 usually suggests a meaningful meeting.
  • Related遭遇そうぐうWrittenWritten/formal prose: running into accidents, enemies and the like—mostly negative. 「出会い」 is mostly about meeting people.
  • Related出会うであうNeutralThe neutral verb form: to meet or get to know someone. 「出会い」 is the noun for the meeting itself.
  • Related際会さいかいWrittenWritten: happening upon an occasion or event, as in 「好機に際会する」; usually things, not people.
  • Related出くわすでくわすCasualColloquial verb for stumbling upon something, often unexpected or unwanted. 「出会い」 is more neutral.
  • Relatedめぐり合うめぐりあうNeutralNeutral verb for reuniting after long separation or finally finding someone or something long sought, with emotion. 「出会う」 is plainer.
  • RelatedあうNeutralThe most common neutral verb for meeting, including arranged meetings. 「出会い」 stresses chance or first-time meetings.
  • Related会遇かいぐうFormalFormal and rare even in writing: a chance encounter. Say 「出会い」 or 「遭遇」 instead.
  • Related遭逢そうほうWrittenWritten but rare: a chance encounter. Say 「遭遇」 instead.
  • RelatedめぐりあいNeutralA neutral word for a chance meeting, often with a fated feel. 「出会い」 is more general and also covers first-time acquaintances.
  • Related逢着ほうちゃくWrittenWritten: running into problems or situations—usually things. 「出会い」 is mostly about meeting people.
  • Related顔を合わせるかおをあわせるCasualColloquial set phrase for meeting face to face, also for co-starring; about seeing someone in person, not first meetings.
  • Related御目文字おめもじFormalFormal, mainly female usage for meeting someone, common in letters. 「出会い」 carries no honorific nuance.
  • Related相見るあいみるWrittenWritten and old-fashioned: facing or seeing each other. In everyday speech say 「会う」.
  • Antonym別れわかれNeutralNeutral antonym: parting or separation—the opposite of meeting.

Use 「出会い」 for first meetings, chance encounters, or meaningful meetings. For an arranged meeting say 「会う」; for running into an accident or trouble, 「遭遇」; for an awkward bumping-into, 「鉢合わせ」; for parting, 「別れ」.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 出会であうこと。邂逅かいこう。
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