恋愛|れんあいren'ai[0]heiban (flat)
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- suru verb, intransitive verb, no-adjectivelove; romance; tender passion; emotion; affections
Conjugation
| Dictionary form | 恋愛する(れんあいする) |
|---|---|
| Polite (masu) | 恋愛します(れんあいします) |
| Negative (nai) | 恋愛しない(れんあいしない) |
| polite (masen) | 恋愛しません(れんあいしません) |
| classical zu / nu | 恋愛せず・恋愛せぬ(れんあいせず・れんあいせぬ) |
| Past (ta) | 恋愛した(れんあいした) |
| polite (mashita) | 恋愛しました(れんあいしました) |
| Past negative (nakatta) | 恋愛しなかった(れんあいしなかった) |
| polite (masen deshita) | 恋愛しませんでした(れんあいしませんでした) |
| Te form | 恋愛して(れんあいして) |
| Potential | 恋愛できる(れんあいできる) |
| Passive | 恋愛される(れんあいされる) |
| Causative | 恋愛させる(れんあいさせる) |
| Causative passive | 恋愛させられる(れんあいさせられる) |
| Conditional (ba) | 恋愛すれば(れんあいすれば) |
| tara | 恋愛したら(れんあいしたら) |
| Volitional | 恋愛しよう(れんあいしよう) |
| polite (mashou) | 恋愛しましょう(れんあいしましょう) |
| Imperative | 恋愛しろ(れんあいしろ) |
Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.
- Synonym愛情あいじょうNeutralMeans love or affection, as in 「親の愛情」; not limited to lovers.
- Synonym恋するこいするNeutralVerb for falling in love, as in 「恋する乙女」; carries a romantic flavor.
- Synonym色恋いろこいNeutralRefers to male-female love affairs, as in 「色恋沙汰」; rather coarse. 「恋愛」 is the neutral, more formal word.
- Synonym恋慕れんぼWrittenWritten word for yearning love, as in 「横恋慕」; mostly literary. 「恋愛」 is the everyday term.
- RelatedロマンスNeutralLoanword for a love affair with a romantic glow, as in 「職場のロマンス」.
- Related愛するあいするNeutralBroad verb meaning to love, as in 「家族を愛する」; covers far more than romantic love.
- Related慕うしたうNeutralMeans to yearn for or look up to someone, as in 「先生を慕う」; can also mean to follow after them.
- Related情事じょうじNeutralRefers to a private or illicit affair, often with a sexual element.
- Related愛すあいすWrittenOlder godan form of 「愛する」; leans written and survives mostly in negatives and imperatives.
- Related恋愛関係れんあいかんけいNeutralMeans a romantic relationship itself, as in 「恋愛関係にある」; mostly used in explanations.
- Related恋い慕うこいしたうWrittenWritten verb for deeply missing and yearning for someone; literary in tone.
- Related濡れ事ぬれごとNeutralOld-fashioned word for a love affair, or a love scene in kabuki.
- RelatedいとおしむWrittenWritten verb for cherishing something dear, as in 「命を愛おしむ」; not limited to romance.
- Related愛慕あいぼWrittenWritten word for feelings of adoration; rare.
- Related艶事つやごとWrittenWritten word for a glamorous or illicit love affair; rare.
- Related好くすくNeutralMeans simply to like or be fond of; most often seen in the passive 「人に好かれる」.
- Related惚れ込むほれこむNeutralMeans to be deeply captivated, as in 「才能に惚れ込む」; not limited to romance.
- Related慈しむいつくしむNeutralMeans to cherish and treat tenderly, as in 「子を慈しむ」; the emphasis is on tender care.
- Related色事いろごとNeutralCoarse word for male-female affairs, often implying physical relations; 「恋愛」 is the neutral term covering attraction and dating.
- Related恋着れんちゃくWrittenWritten word for obsessive attachment; rare.
- Related恋路こいじWrittenWritten word for the course of a romance, as in 「人の恋路を邪魔する」.
- Related女色じょしょくWrittenWritten word for a woman's charms or affairs with women; mostly found in classical texts.
- Related色恋沙汰いろこいざたNeutralRefers to romantic goings-on between men and women, usually with a negative nuance such as love troubles.
- Antonym憎悪ぞうおNeutralMeans hatred or loathing; the opposite of 「恋愛」 as a feeling of tender attraction.
- Antonym嫌悪けんおNeutralMeans disgust or aversion; the opposite of the attraction of 「恋愛」.
Use 「恋愛」 for romantic love and dating, as in 「恋愛結婚」 or 「恋愛映画」; it also covers one-sided love. For love not limited to lovers, say 「愛情」; the verb is 「恋する」, and a romance with a dreamy feel is 「ロマンス」. For loving broadly, use 「愛する」. The opposites are 「憎悪」 and 「嫌悪」.
Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only


