悲しみ・哀しみ・愛しみ|かなしみkanashimi[0]heiban (flat)

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Which spelling to use
悲しみ悲しみ is the most common written form of this word and the recommended choice for beginners. It is written with kanji and kana.
哀しみ哀しみ is less common than 悲しみ. It is another written form using kanji and kana, and can be recognized as an alternative to 悲しみ.
愛しみ愛しみ is the least common of these three written forms. It uses kanji and kana, but beginners should choose 悲しみ instead.
Definitions
  1. nounsadness; sorrow; grief
    時ときはどんな悲かなしみも癒いやしてくれる。↗
    Time tames the strongest grief.
  2. nounaffection; love
Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym悲嘆ひたんWrittenWritten/formal prose for profound grief and lamentation, as in 「悲嘆に暮れる」; much deeper anguish than 「悲しみ」.
  • Synonym悲しさかなしさNeutralRefers to the degree of sadness, as in 「悲しさがこみ上げる」; it stresses how strong the feeling is, while 「悲しみ」 is the emotion itself.
  • Related不幸せふしあわせNeutralMeans being unhappy, as in 「不幸せな人生」; it is about one's circumstances in life, not the emotion of sadness itself.
  • Related不幸ふこうNeutralMisfortune or a death in the family, as in 「身内に不幸がある」; refers to what happens to you, not the feeling of sadness.
  • Related哀情あいじょうWrittenWritten/formal prose for sorrowful feelings; rare in modern Japanese.
  • Antonym喜びよろこびNeutralJoy and delight; the direct opposite of 「悲しみ」 on the axis of sad versus happy emotions.
  • Antonym楽しみたのしみNeutralPleasure, fun, or something to look forward to; the opposite of 「悲しみ」.

Use 「悲しみ」 for the emotion of sadness, as in 「悲しみに暮れる」 or 「深い悲しみ」. For the degree of sadness say 「悲しさ」; for deep grief 「悲嘆」. The opposite is 「喜び」.

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Japanese definitions
  1. 悲かなしむこと、悲かなしい感情かんじょう。
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