How to say "sorrow" in Japanese

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  • 憂いうれいCommon
    nounSorrow felt as a heavy, lingering weight on the heart, shading into anguish or distress; suits brooding, inward grief more than openly expressed sadness.
    憂うれいの反面はんめんには喜よろこびがあるものだ。↗
    Every cloud has a silver lining.
  • 不幸ふこうJLPT N3approx.Common
    noun, na-adjectiveChiefly unhappiness, misfortune, or disaster — an unhappy state of affairs or lot in life. Seldom the word for the emotion of sorrow itself; choose it when sorrow means misfortune.
    それで余計よけいに彼かれは不幸ふこうになった。↗
    That added to his unhappiness.
  • 悲しみかなしみCommon
    nounThe straightforward word for sadness, sorrow, and grief — the feeling itself, from everyday sadness to deep mourning. When unsure which word to use for sorrow, this is the safe default.
    時ときはどんな悲かなしみも癒いやしてくれる。↗
    Time tames the strongest grief.
  • 哀れあわれJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounSorrow tinged with pity: the misery of a person or thing that stirs compassion. Best for pitiable, pathetic situations that move the heart.
    彼女かのじょは哀あわれを誘さそう有様ありさまだった。↗
    She was in a piteous state.
  • 哀愁あいしゅうCommon
    nounA wistful, plaintive sorrow — pathos as a mood or atmosphere. Often describes scenes, music, or memories tinged with melancholy rather than acute personal grief.

Use 「悲しみ」 for sadness or grief in general; 「憂い」 for heavy, brooding anguish; 「哀れ」 for sorrow that stirs pity; 哀愁 for wistful pathos in a scene; and 不幸 for unhappiness or misfortune rather than the emotion itself.

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