How to say "grief" in Japanese

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  • 嘆きなげきCommon
    nounCovers grief as lamentation—active mourning or audible sorrowing over a loss. Use it when the nuance is grieving expressed through lament rather than quiet inner sadness.
    I felt deep sorrow at his death.
  • 悲しみかなしみCommon
    nounThe broadest and most everyday word for grief, covering sadness, sorrow, and mourning alike. When unsure which word to use for 'grief', this is usually the safest choice.
    時ときはどんな悲かなしみも癒いやしてくれる。↗
    Time tames the strongest grief.
  • 哀れあわれJLPT N3approx.Common
    nounGrief tinged with pity or pathos, often directed at another's misery or at something pitiable. As a rendering of 'grief' it is somewhat literary; its core senses are pity and sorrow.
    彼女かのじょは哀あわれを誘さそう有様ありさまだった。↗
    She was in a piteous state.
  • 憂いうれいCommon
    nounGrief felt as anguish, distress, or a heavy sorrow weighing on the heart. Choose it for deeper, more brooding sadness than 悲しみ suggests.
    憂うれいの反面はんめんには喜よろこびがあるものだ。↗
    Every cloud has a silver lining.
  • 哀愁あいしゅうCommon
    nounA wistful, poetic sorrow or pathos rather than acute personal grief. It suits gentle melancholy over a scene or memory, and is rarely the word for sharp mourning.

「悲しみ」 is the everyday default for grief; 「嘆き」 stresses lamenting; 「哀れ」 and 哀愁 are literary flavors of sorrow and pathos; 「憂い」 suggests deeper anguish or a lingering melancholy.

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