断り・断わり|ことわりkotowari[4]odaka (tail-high)
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Which spelling to use
断りUse 断り as the usual written form; it is the more common of the two forms and the recommended choice for beginners.
断わり断わり is a less common written variant of 断り. You may encounter it, but beginners should normally choose 断り instead.
Definitions
- nounnotice; notification; warning
- nounpermission; consent
- nounrejection; refusal; nonacceptance; declination; declining
- nounexcuse; plea
Synonyms & antonyms
- Synonym拒絶きょぜつNeutralFlat, forceful refusal; unlike 「断り」, it carries no nuance of giving advance notice.
- Synonym拒否きょひNeutralRefusal or veto with a clear-cut stance, as in 「受け取り拒否」.
- Related辞退じたいNeutralDeclining or stepping aside, also withdrawing from candidacy or an event, as in 「出場を辞退する」; leans formal.
- Relatedお断りおことわりNeutralPolite form of 「断り」, often seen on notices such as 「喫煙お断り」; used mainly for politely declining or giving advance notice.
- Related謝絶しゃぜつNeutralRefusing requests politely, as in 「面会謝絶」; used mostly on signs and in formal settings.
- Related肘鉄砲ひじでっぽうCasualColloquial and humorous: flatly rejecting a romantic advance or invitation, as in 「肘鉄砲を食らう」.
- Antonym承諾しょうだくNeutralAntonym: giving consent or agreement; stands opposite the refusing sense of 「断り」.
- Antonym許可きょかNeutralPermission or official approval; opposes 「断り」 only in the accept-or-refuse sense, not its advance-notice sense.
Use 「断り」 for refusing or giving advance notice, as in 「断りもなく」. For a polite tone pick 「お断り」, for formal stepping aside 「辞退」, and for a flat, forceful refusal 「拒絶」.
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