失敬|しっけいshikkei[3]nakadaka (mid-high)

Common
Definitions
  1. noun, suru verb, na-adjective, transitive verbrudeness; impoliteness; disrespect; impertinence
  2. noun, suru verb, transitive verbleaving; going (on one's way); saying goodbye
  3. noun, suru verb, transitive verbtaking without permission; stealing; pinching; pilfering
  4. interjectionmy apologies; I must be going now; so long
Conjugation
Dictionary form失敬する(しっけいする)
Polite (masu)失敬します(しっけいします)
Negative (nai)失敬しない(しっけいしない)
polite (masen)失敬しません(しっけいしません)
classical zu / nu失敬せず・失敬せぬ(しっけいせず・しっけいせぬ)
Past (ta)失敬した(しっけいした)
polite (mashita)失敬しました(しっけいしました)
Past negative (nakatta)失敬しなかった(しっけいしなかった)
polite (masen deshita)失敬しませんでした(しっけいしませんでした)
Te form失敬して(しっけいして)
Potential失敬できる(しっけいできる)
Passive失敬される(しっけいされる)
Causative失敬させる(しっけいさせる)
Causative passive失敬させられる(しっけいさせられる)
Conditional (ba)失敬すれば(しっけいすれば)
tara失敬したら(しっけいしたら)
Volitional失敬しよう(しっけいしよう)
polite (mashou)失敬しましょう(しっけいしましょう)
Imperative失敬しろ(しっけいしろ)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym非礼ひれいWrittenWritten/formal prose; stresses a breach of etiquette norms. 「失敬」 also appears in everyday speech, mostly from men.
  • Synonym失礼しつれいNeutralThe everyday default for rudeness or taking leave; when leaving, 「失礼します」 is politer than 「失敬」.
  • Synonym無礼ぶれいNeutralStresses disrespect toward superiors or elders; heavier in tone than 「失敬」.
  • Synonym粗野そやNeutralStresses coarse, vulgar speech and behavior lacking refinement; cruder than 「失敬」.
  • Synonym無作法ぶさほうNeutralIll-mannered; stresses not knowing proper etiquette and so behaving badly, more about ignorance of the rules than 「失敬」.
  • Related傍若無人ぼうじゃくぶじんWrittenWritten/formal prose; stresses acting as if no one were around, doing as one pleases regardless of others.
  • Related生意気なまいきCasualColloquial; a junior's cheeky arrogance, usually said by elders about juniors; more scolding than 「失敬」.
  • Related不遜ふそんWrittenWritten/formal prose; stresses arrogance and looking down on people, a haughtier attitude than 「失敬」 implies.
  • Related不躾ぶしつけNeutralCovers abruptness and ignorance of manners, often humble: 「不躾なお願い」. 「失敬」 is more about rudeness or leaving.
  • Related無遠慮ぶえんりょNeutralUnreserved; stresses speaking and acting with no restraint, more about not holding back than 「失敬」.
  • Related不行儀ふぎょうぎNeutralBad manners; stresses behavior that breaks etiquette, focused more on conduct than 「失敬」.
  • Related僭越せんえつFormalFormal; stresses presumptuous words or acts that overstep one's station.
  • Related厚顔こうがんWrittenWritten/formal prose; stresses acting shamelessly, thicker-skinned than 「失敬」.
  • RelatedこしゃくCasualColloquial; annoying, cheeky cleverness; 「小癪な」 carries a contemptuous tone.
  • RelatedちょこざいCasualColloquial; small-minded smart-aleck arrogance, heard mostly in period-drama lines.
  • Related推参すいさんFormalFormal and old-fashioned; stresses turning up uninvited or pushing in, more archaic than 「失敬」.
  • Related鉄面皮てつめんぴWrittenWritten/formal prose; a brazen, shameless person or attitude, harsher than 「失敬」.
  • Antonym丁寧ていねいNeutralAntonym: polite and attentive, the opposite of rude 「失敬」.

Use 「失敬」 for being rude, taking your leave, or taking something without permission; it is mostly men's speech, as in 「失敬な奴だ」 or 「ではこれで失敬」. In daily conversation say 「失礼」 instead; for a heavier tone use 「無礼」. The opposite is 「丁寧」.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 相手あいてに対たいして敬意けいいを欠かくこと。
  2. 暇乞いとまごいすること。辞去じきょすること。
  3. 他人たにんのものを盗ぬすむこと。
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