嫌がる・厭がる|いやがるiyagaru[3]nakadaka (mid-high)

JLPT N2approx.Common
Which spelling to use
嫌がる嫌がる(いやがる) is the more common written form and the recommended default for beginners; its mixed kanji-and-kana spelling is the one to choose.
厭がる厭がる is rarely used, though it is also written with kanji and kana. Learners will seldom need to choose this variant.
Definitions
  1. godan verb, transitive verbto appear uncomfortable (with); to seem to hate; to express dislike
    彼かれは急いそげと言いわれるのをいやがる。↗
    He hates being told to hurry up.
Conjugation
Dictionary form嫌がる(いやがる)
Polite (masu)嫌がります(いやがります)
Negative (nai)嫌がらない(いやがらない)
polite (masen)嫌がりません(いやがりません)
classical zu / nu嫌がらず・嫌がらぬ(いやがらず・いやがらぬ)
Past (ta)嫌がった(いやがった)
polite (mashita)嫌がりました(いやがりました)
Past negative (nakatta)嫌がらなかった(いやがらなかった)
polite (masen deshita)嫌がりませんでした(いやがりませんでした)
Te form嫌がって(いやがって)
Potential嫌がれる(いやがれる)
Passive嫌がられる(いやがられる)
Causative嫌がらせる(いやがらせる)
Causative passive嫌がらせられる・嫌がらされる(いやがらせられる・いやがらされる)
Conditional (ba)嫌がれば(いやがれば)
tara嫌がったら(いやがったら)
Volitional嫌がろう(いやがろう)
polite (mashou)嫌がりましょう(いやがりましょう)
Imperative嫌がれ(いやがれ)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym嫌うきらうNeutralDisliking or loathing something in one's heart, as in 「虫を嫌う」; the focus is inner likes and dislikes, while 「嫌がる」 shows reluctance in one's attitude.
  • Synonym嫌悪けんおWrittenA noun for deep disgust, as in 「自己嫌悪」; leans toward written/formal prose.
  • SynonymいやCasualA na-adjective for feeling that something is unpleasant or that you don't want to do it, as in 「嫌だ」; the most common colloquial way to state your own feelings.
  • Synonym厭ういとうWrittenWritten/formal prose: being unwilling to do something and avoiding it; often in 「労を厭わない」 (never shirking toil). Also means to cherish and care for someone.
  • Related憎悪ぞうおWrittenA noun for hatred, as in 「憎悪の念」; far stronger than 「嫌がる」 and carries intense hostility.
  • Related憎むにくむNeutralMeans to hate, as in 「罪を憎んで人を憎まず」; the emphasis is on hatred, stronger than mere dislike.
  • RelatedきらいNeutralA na-adjective for not liking something, as in 「野菜が嫌い」; the most common way to state likes and dislikes, while 「嫌がる」 describes the outward reaction.
  • Related嫌気いやきNeutralA noun (read 「いやき」 or 「いやけ」) for a fed-up, disgusted feeling; common in 「嫌気が差す」. 「嫌がる」 is the outward show of reluctance.
  • Related忌み嫌ういみきらうNeutralMeans to detest something so strongly that one shuns it, as in 「蛇を忌み嫌う」; stronger than 「嫌がる」.
  • Related厭悪えんおWrittenWritten/formal prose for disgust and hatred; rare — in everyday use say 「嫌悪」.
  • Related嫌忌けんきWrittenWritten/formal prose for dislike and taboo-avoidance; rare — in everyday use say 「嫌悪」.
  • Related厭忌えんきWrittenWritten/formal prose for aversion and taboo-avoidance; rare — in everyday use say 「嫌がる」.
  • Related嫌厭けんえんWrittenWritten/formal prose for disgust and repulsion, as in 「嫌厭感」; rare — in everyday use say 「嫌悪」.
  • Related忌むいむWrittenWritten/formal prose: to avoid or shun as inauspicious, as in 「忌むべき風習」; usually from superstition or taboo.
  • Related忌諱ききWrittenWritten/formal prose for avoiding something out of taboo or fear; common in 「忌諱に触れる」, 'to offend against a taboo'.
  • Related唾棄だきWrittenWritten/formal prose for spurning with utter contempt, as in 「唾棄すべき行為」.
  • Related毛嫌いけぎらいNeutralMeans disliking someone or something without reason, as in 「食わず嫌い・毛嫌いする」; the emphasis is on prejudice.
  • Antonym喜ぶよろこぶNeutralAntonym: to be glad or delighted; the opposite of 「嫌がる」.
  • Antonym好むこのむNeutralAntonym: to like or have a taste for something, as in 「甘いものを好む」; the opposite of 「嫌がる」.
  • Antonym望むのぞむNeutralAntonym: to hope for or desire something; the opposite of the reluctance expressed by 「嫌がる」.

Use 「嫌がる」 when reluctance or dislike shows in someone's attitude, as in 「子どもが注射を嫌がる」. For inner likes and dislikes use 「嫌い」 or 「嫌う」; for your own feeling say 「嫌だ」; for strong hatred use 「憎む」. Most of the written/formal terms here are literary or rare. The opposites are 「喜ぶ」 and 「好む」.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 嫌いやだという気持きもちを態度たいどに表あらわす。
Kanji in this word
See also

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