How to say "reluctant" in Japanese

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  • 名残惜しいなごりおしいCommon
    i-adjectiveUsed for the sense of being reluctant to part: saying goodbye, leaving a place, or parting from someone. It conveys lingering attachment and regret at the separation itself.
  • いやJLPT N5approx.Common
    na-adjectiveCovers reluctance in the sense of simply not wanting to do something, out of dislike or unwillingness. Typical when you are asked or expected to do something you would rather avoid and hesitate to agree.
    彼かれの話し方はなしかたが嫌いやなの。↗
    I don't like his way of talking.
  • 不本意ふほんいCommon
    na-adjective, nounReluctance in the sense of acting against one's own wishes — an unwilling decision, or something involuntary or unintentional. Typical of actions taken or outcomes accepted contrary to what one really wants.
    彼女かのじょは不本意ふほんいながらもそうした。↗
    She did it against her will.

Choose 「名残惜しい」 for reluctance to part with a person or place, 「いや」 when you simply do not want to do something, and 不本意 for actions or outcomes that go against your own wishes.

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