How to say "self-restraint" in Japanese

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  • 自粛じしゅくCommon
    noun, suru verb, transitive verbVoluntary restraint: choosing on one's own to refrain from an activity, rather than curbing feelings. Typical when people or organizations voluntarily hold off on events, outings, or operations.
    彼かれは自粛じしゅくの波なみに乗のらなかった。↗
    He refused to exercise self-restraint.
  • 自制じせいCommon
    noun, suru verb, transitive verb, intransitive verbSelf-control in the sense of keeping one's own emotions, desires, and impulses in check; the word for resisting temptation or not losing your temper.
    君きみは自制じせいしなければならない。↗
    You must control yourself.
  • 節制せっせいCommon
    suru verb, transitive verb, no-adjectiveRestraint as moderation or temperance: limiting eating, drinking, and other indulgences over the long term rather than resisting a single urge.
    節制せっせいは最良さいりょうの薬くすり。↗
    Temperance is the best physic.
  • 我慢がまんJLPT N3approx.Common
    noun, suru verb, intransitive verbSelf-control as moment-to-moment endurance: bearing hardship or pain, holding back tears, anger, or an urge, putting up with something rather than abstaining from an activity.

Choose by what is being held back: 自粛 for voluntarily refraining from activities, 自制 for controlling one's own impulses and emotions, 節制 for moderation in habits, and 我慢 for enduring or suppressing urges in the moment.

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