失う・喪う|うしなうushinau[0]heiban (flat)

JLPT N3approx.Common
Which spelling to use
失う失う(うしなう) is the most common and most standard written form; use it for both “to lose” and “to miss (a chance or opportunity).”
喪う喪う(うしなう) is a rarely used kanji-and-kana spelling, so you will seldom encounter it; beginners should use 失う(うしなう) instead.
Definitions
  1. godan verb, transitive verbto lose
    ミスで財産ざいさんを失うしなった。↗
    My mistake cost me my fortune.
  2. godan verb, transitive verbto miss (a chance, opportunity)
  3. godan verb, transitive verbto lose (a loved one); to be bereaved of
  4. godan verb, transitive verbto concede (goals, points, etc.)
Conjugation
Dictionary form失う(うしなう)
Polite (masu)失います(うしないます)
Negative (nai)失わない(うしなわない)
polite (masen)失いません(うしないません)
classical zu / nu失わず・失わぬ(うしなわず・うしなわぬ)
Past (ta)失った(うしなった)
polite (mashita)失いました(うしないました)
Past negative (nakatta)失わなかった(うしなわなかった)
polite (masen deshita)失いませんでした(うしないませんでした)
Te form失って(うしなって)
Potential失える(うしなえる)
Passive失われる(うしなわれる)
Causative失わせる(うしなわせる)
Causative passive失わせられる・失わされる(うしなわせられる・うしなわされる)
Conditional (ba)失えば(うしなえば)
tara失ったら(うしなったら)
Volitional失おう(うしなおう)
polite (mashou)失いましょう(うしないましょう)
Imperative失え(うしなえ)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym落とすおとすNeutralRefers to dropping something or losing it, as in 「財布を落とす」; the focus is on the act of dropping. 「失う」 also covers abstract things like confidence or opportunities.
  • SynonymなくすNeutralCommon in everyday speech for losing an object, as in 「鍵を無くす」. 「失う」 is more written and mostly used for things like trust or life.
  • Synonym逸するいっするWrittenWritten language. Means missing a chance, as in 「好機を逸する」, and also deviating, as in 「常軌を逸する」.
  • Synonym失するしっするWrittenWritten language for losing propriety or timing, as in 「礼を失する」 and 「時機を失する」; it can also mean going to excess.
  • Synonym喪失そうしつWrittenA noun for the loss of abilities, qualifications and the like, as in 「記憶喪失」 or 「自信喪失」; written and abstract in flavour.
  • Synonym紛失ふんしつFormalFormal. Used when an item goes missing, as in 「書類を紛失する」; applies to objects only.
  • Synonym遺失いしつWrittenA legal term for losing valuables or property, as in 「遺失物」; in daily speech one says 「落とし物」.
  • Synonym亡くすなくすNeutralSpecifically losing someone through their death, as in 「父を亡くす」 or 「愛犬を亡くす」 — family, friends or pets. 「失う」 covers this too but has a wider range.
  • Synonym逃すのがすNeutralFor missing a chance or letting prey get away, as in 「チャンスを逃す」; the focus is on failing to catch or seize.
  • Synonym亡失ぼうしつWrittenWritten word for losing something; rare in modern usage — say 「紛失」 or 「失う」 instead.
  • Synonym落っことすおっことすCasualColloquial, a casual form of 「落とす」 for carelessly dropping something; 「失う」 lacks this offhand feel.
  • Synonym損亡そんもうWrittenWritten word for financial or material loss; rare today — in everyday use say 「損失」 or 「失う」.
  • Synonym無くなすなくなすCasualA dialectal or colloquial variant of 「無くす」 with the same meaning; in daily life people usually say 「なくす」.
  • Synonym死に別れるしにわかれるNeutralIntransitive; describes being parted from someone by death, as in 「妻と死に別れる」, stressing the separation. 「失う」 is transitive.
  • Related置き忘れるおきわすれるNeutralFor leaving something somewhere and forgetting to take it, as in 「傘を置き忘れる」; the stress is on forgetting.
  • Related取り落とすとりおとすNeutralFor dropping something you were holding or letting it slip through; the emphasis is on a fumble of the hands, which 「失う」 does not stress.
  • Antonym得るうるWrittenAntonym. Means to get or obtain, as in 「信頼を得る」, and leans written/formal.
  • Antonym手に入れるてにいれるNeutralAntonym. Means to get one's hands on something, as in 「チケットを手に入れる」; common in speech.

Use 「失う」 for losing what you had — trust, life, opportunities. To lose an object, everyday speech says 「無くす」 or 「落とす」, formal contexts 「紛失」. For losing someone to death use 「亡くす」; for missing a chance, 「逃す」. The rest are narrower: 「置き忘れる」 for leaving things behind, 「取り落とす」 for dropping what you hold, 「逸する」 and 「失する」 as written words for missed chances, and 「喪失」 as a written noun for loss of ability or confidence.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 持もっていたものを無なくす。
  2. 手てに入いれようとしたものを取り逃とりにがす。
  3. 大切たいせつな人ひとを亡なくす。
  4. 競技きょうぎやゲームで相手あいてに得点とくてんを入いれられる。
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