別れる|わかれるwakareru[3]nakadaka (mid-high)
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- ichidan verb, intransitive verbto part (usu. of people); to part from; to part with; to be apart from
- ichidan verb, intransitive verbto separate (of a couple); to break up; to divorce
- ichidan verb, intransitive verbto lose (e.g. one's mother); to be bereaved
Conjugation
| Dictionary form | 別れる(わかれる) |
|---|---|
| Polite (masu) | 別れます(わかれます) |
| Negative (nai) | 別れない(わかれない) |
| polite (masen) | 別れません(わかれません) |
| classical zu / nu | 別れず・別れぬ(わかれず・わかれぬ) |
| Past (ta) | 別れた(わかれた) |
| polite (mashita) | 別れました(わかれました) |
| Past negative (nakatta) | 別れなかった(わかれなかった) |
| polite (masen deshita) | 別れませんでした(わかれませんでした) |
| Te form | 別れて(わかれて) |
| Potential | 別れられる(わかれられる) |
| Passive | 別れられる(わかれられる) |
| Causative | 別れさせる(わかれさせる) |
| Causative passive | 別れさせられる(わかれさせられる) |
| Conditional (ba) | 別れれば(わかれれば) |
| tara | 別れたら(わかれたら) |
| Volitional | 別れよう(わかれよう) |
| polite (mashou) | 別れましょう(わかれましょう) |
| Imperative | 別れろ(わかれろ) |
Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.
- Synonym離縁りえんFormalA formal term for divorce or dissolving an adoption, with legal overtones; still used in modern Japanese.
- Synonym縁切りえんきりCasualColloquial word for cutting off a relationship, as in 「縁切り寺」; stresses a complete, thorough break in ties.
- Synonym離別りべつWrittenWritten-style word for parting or divorce, as in 「離別の悲しみ」.
- Related分かれるわかれるNeutralWritten this way, it means one whole splitting into parts, as in 「道が分かれる」 or 「二手に分かれる」; 「別れる」 is for people parting.
- Related解散かいさんNeutralFor a meeting or group breaking up, as in 「現地解散」 or 「ここで解散しよう」; it applies to a crowd or organization, not individuals.
- Related分裂ぶんれつWrittenWritten-style word for an organization or set of opinions splitting, as in 「党が分裂する」.
- Antonym出会うであうNeutralThe opposite of 「別れる」: meeting someone by chance and getting to know them, as in 「運命の人に出会う」.
- AntonymあうNeutralThe opposite of 「別れる」: meeting or getting together with someone, as in 「友達と会う」.
Use 「別れる」 for people parting or couples breaking up. For a whole splitting into parts use 「分かれる」, for a group disbanding 「解散」, for cutting ties 「縁切り」, for an organization splitting 「分裂」. Meeting someone is 「出会う」 or 「会う」.
Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only


