別れる|わかれるwakareru[3]nakadaka (mid-high)

JLPT N4approx.Common
Definitions
  1. ichidan verb, intransitive verbto part (usu. of people); to part from; to part with; to be apart from
  2. ichidan verb, intransitive verbto separate (of a couple); to break up; to divorce
    あなたが彼女かのじょと別わかれるのは賢明けんめいである。↗
    You will do well to leave her.
  3. ichidan verb, intransitive verbto lose (e.g. one's mother); to be bereaved
Conjugation
Dictionary form別れる(わかれる)
Polite (masu)別れます(わかれます)
Negative (nai)別れない(わかれない)
polite (masen)別れません(わかれません)
classical zu / nu別れず・別れぬ(わかれず・わかれぬ)
Past (ta)別れた(わかれた)
polite (mashita)別れました(わかれました)
Past negative (nakatta)別れなかった(わかれなかった)
polite (masen deshita)別れませんでした(わかれませんでした)
Te form別れて(わかれて)
Potential別れられる(わかれられる)
Passive別れられる(わかれられる)
Causative別れさせる(わかれさせる)
Causative passive別れさせられる(わかれさせられる)
Conditional (ba)別れれば(わかれれば)
tara別れたら(わかれたら)
Volitional別れよう(わかれよう)
polite (mashou)別れましょう(わかれましょう)
Imperative別れろ(わかれろ)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym離縁りえんFormalA formal term for divorce or dissolving an adoption, with legal overtones; still used in modern Japanese.
  • Synonym縁切りえんきりCasualColloquial word for cutting off a relationship, as in 「縁切り寺」; stresses a complete, thorough break in ties.
  • Synonym離別りべつWrittenWritten-style word for parting or divorce, as in 「離別の悲しみ」.
  • Related分かれるわかれるNeutralWritten this way, it means one whole splitting into parts, as in 「道が分かれる」 or 「二手に分かれる」; 「別れる」 is for people parting.
  • Related解散かいさんNeutralFor a meeting or group breaking up, as in 「現地解散」 or 「ここで解散しよう」; it applies to a crowd or organization, not individuals.
  • Related分裂ぶんれつWrittenWritten-style word for an organization or set of opinions splitting, as in 「党が分裂する」.
  • Antonym出会うであうNeutralThe opposite of 「別れる」: meeting someone by chance and getting to know them, as in 「運命の人に出会う」.
  • AntonymあうNeutralThe opposite of 「別れる」: meeting or getting together with someone, as in 「友達と会う」.

Use 「別れる」 for people parting or couples breaking up. For a whole splitting into parts use 「分かれる」, for a group disbanding 「解散」, for cutting ties 「縁切り」, for an organization splitting 「分裂」. Meeting someone is 「出会う」 or 「会う」.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 一緒いっしょに居いたものが離はなれて去さる。
  2. 夫婦ふうふや恋人こいびとがそれまでの関係かんけいを解消かいしょうする。
  3. 死別しべつする。
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