絞める|しめるshimeru[2]nakadaka (mid-high)

Common
Definitions
  1. ichidan verb, transitive verbto strangle; to constrict
    Please fasten your seat belts, and kindly refrain from smoking.
Conjugation
Dictionary form絞める(しめる)
Polite (masu)絞めます(しめます)
Negative (nai)絞めない(しめない)
polite (masen)絞めません(しめません)
classical zu / nu絞めず・絞めぬ(しめず・しめぬ)
Past (ta)絞めた(しめた)
polite (mashita)絞めました(しめました)
Past negative (nakatta)絞めなかった(しめなかった)
polite (masen deshita)絞めませんでした(しめませんでした)
Te form絞めて(しめて)
Potential絞められる(しめられる)
Passive絞められる(しめられる)
Causative絞めさせる(しめさせる)
Causative passive絞めさせられる(しめさせられる)
Conditional (ba)絞めれば(しめれば)
tara絞めたら(しめたら)
Volitional絞めよう(しめよう)
polite (mashou)絞めましょう(しめましょう)
Imperative絞めろ(しめろ)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Transitive / intransitive pair
transitive絞めるしめる⇄intransitive絞まるしまる
首くびが絞しまる
首くびを絞しめる
絞まる, the intransitive verb, emphasizes the event or resulting state, as in 首が絞まる; 絞める, the transitive verb, foregrounds the agent acting on something, as in 首を絞める.

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Synonyms & antonyms
  • Related絞殺こうさつFormalFormal term used in legal and news contexts for strangling to death; 「絞める」 denotes the action itself.
  • Related絞め殺すしめころすNeutralEmphasizes the outcome — strangling someone to death — whereas 「絞める」 focuses on the act of tightening the neck itself.
  • Related縊るくびるWrittenWritten, archaic word for strangling another person to death; rarely used today — say 「絞め殺す」 instead.
  • Antonym緩めるゆるめるNeutralMeans to loosen or relax — the direct opposite of the tightening of 「絞める」.
  • Antonym弛めるたるめるWrittenSame meaning as 「緩める」; 「弛める」 is merely an alternative spelling, carrying a written, literary flavor.

Use 「絞める」 for tightening around the neck, as in 「首を絞める」 or figuratively 「自分の首を絞める」. For killing by strangling, say 「絞め殺す」; 「絞殺」 is the formal legal/news term. To loosen or relax, use 「緩める」.

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Japanese definitions
  1. (絞しめる) 首くびを圧迫あっぱくする。
  2. (俗語ぞくご)暴力ぼうりょくや脅迫きょうはくなどにより制裁せいさいを加くわえる。
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