How to say "refuse" in Japanese

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  • 断ることわるJLPT N3approx.Common
    godan verb, transitive verbThe verb for refusing or turning down an offer, request or invitation; use it when you decline what someone asks of you.
    なぜ彼かれの申し出もうしでを断ことわったのですか。↗
    Why did you turn down his offer?
  • 拒むこばむCommon
    godan verb, transitive verbAlso a verb of refusing, but firmer in feel: refusing flatly to accept, allow or comply with something, rather than simply declining an offer.
    あいにく彼かれは来くることを拒こばんだ。↗
    Unfortunately he refused to come.
  • ゴミJLPT N4approx.Common
    nounThe noun 'refuse' in the sense of rubbish, trash or garbage — waste you throw away, not an act of refusing; it is usually written in kana alone.
    彼女かのじょは玄関げんかんのごみをはいた。↗
    She swept the dirt from the porch.
  • 廃物はいぶつCommon
    nounA noun for waste material or discarded, useless articles; like ゴミ it names refuse as things rather than the act of refusing.
  • 蹴るけるJLPT N2approx.Common
    godan verb, transitive verbBasically means 'to kick'; its 'refuse, reject' sense extends that image, so it is seldom the word you want when simply refusing an offer or request.
    彼かれは私わたしたちの要求ようきゅうをきっぱりとけった。↗
    He rejected our demand flatly.

Use 「断る」 to decline an offer, request or invitation and 「拒む」 for a firmer, more resolute refusal; 「ゴミ」 and 廃物 are the noun 'refuse' meaning trash or waste; 「蹴る」 basically means 'kick' and seldom fits.

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