厳しい・酷しい|きびしいkibishii[3]nakadaka (mid-high)

JLPT N4approx.Common
Which spelling to use
厳しい厳しい(きびしい) is the most common form and the recommended choice for beginners; it expresses “severe,” “strict,” “rigid,” or “unsparing.”
酷しい酷しい(きびしい) is a rarely used written variant of 厳しい(きびしい), so learners will seldom need to choose it.
Definitions
  1. i-adjectivesevere; strict; rigid; unsparing; relentless
    彼かれは厳きびしい批判ひはんにさらされた。↗
    He was subjected to severe criticism.
  2. i-adjectivehard (to do); difficult; tricky
    練習れんしゅうがどんなに厳きびしくても、彼女かのじょは決けっして泣なかなかった。↗
    However hard the training was, she never cried.
  3. i-adjectiveintense (e.g. cold); harsh (weather); inclement
    The tundra has a harsh climate.
Conjugation
Plain form厳しい(きびしい)
Polite (desu)厳しいです(きびしいです)
Negative (kunai)厳しくない(きびしくない)
polite (ku arimasen)厳しくありません(きびしくありません)
Past (katta)厳しかった(きびしかった)
Past negative (kunakatta)厳しくなかった(きびしくなかった)
Te form (kute)厳しくて(きびしくて)
Adverbial (ku)厳しく(きびしく)
Conditional (kereba)厳しければ(きびしければ)
kattara厳しかったら(きびしかったら)

Common forms generated by rule; see the senses for honorific or irregular usage.

Synonyms & antonyms
  • Synonym厳格げんかくWrittenWritten style: strict and serious, never lax, as in 「厳格な父」; the focus is on attitude, while 「厳しい」 also covers harsh conditions.
  • Synonym厳重げんじゅうWrittenWritten: tight security or strict handling, as in 「厳重に保管」 and 「厳重注意」 (a stern warning).
  • SynonymシビアCasualColloquial loanword: unsparing and no-nonsense, as in 「シビアな評価」; mostly about judgments or hard realities.
  • Synonym手厳しいてきびしいNeutralUnsparing criticism or treatment, as in 「手厳しい批判」; sharper-tongued and harsher than 「厳しい」.
  • Synonym冷厳れいげんWrittenWritten: coolly stern and impossible to evade, as in 「冷厳な事実」; stresses the mercilessness of facts.
  • Synonym酷こくWrittenWritten: excessively harsh, as in 「酷な要求」; stresses being too hard on people.
  • SynonymきついCasualColloquial: taxing, tight, or stern, as in 「仕事がきつい」 or 「靴がきつい」.
  • Synonym過酷かこくWrittenWritten: brutally hard, as in 「過酷な労働」; beyond what one can reasonably bear.
  • Synonym峻厳しゅんげんWrittenWritten: stern and austere, allowing no leniency, as in 「峻厳な態度」; colder and more forbidding than 「厳しい」.
  • Related猛烈もうれつWrittenWritten: fierce in force, as in 「猛烈な暑さ」 or 「猛烈に働く」; about sheer intensity, not strictness.
  • RelatedひどいCasualColloquial: cruel or just plain bad, as in 「ひどい雨」 or 「ひどい人」; carries strong negative feeling.
  • Related激烈げきれつWrittenWritten: fierce fighting or competition, as in 「激烈な競争」; stresses how intense something is.
  • Related凄まじいすさまじいCasualColloquial: staggering, overwhelming, as in 「凄まじい音」; can be praise or blame, stressing the shock.
  • Related険しいけわしいNeutralSteep mountain paths, but also a rough road ahead or a stern expression, as in 「険しい道のり」.
  • Related厳密げんみつWrittenWritten: precise and rigorous, as in 「厳密に言えば」; about exactness, not severity.
  • Related酷烈こくれつWrittenWritten: extremely severe, as in 「酷烈な暑さ」; fairly rare.
  • RelatedこっぴどいCasualColloquial intensifier: thoroughly, as in 「こっぴどく叱られる」; stresses getting a terrible scolding.
  • Related峻烈しゅんれつWrittenWritten: severe and cutting, as in 「峻烈な批判」; stresses the sharpness of words.
  • Antonym甘いあまいCasualOpposite of the strict sense: lax and indulgent, as in 「子供に甘い」.
  • Antonym寛大かんだいWrittenWritten opposite of the stern sense: generous and lenient, as in 「寛大な処置」.
  • Antonym穏やかおだやかNeutralOpposite of the harsh sense: mild weather or a calm manner, as in 「穏やかな天気」.
  • Antonym優しいやさしいNeutralOpposite of the strict sense: kind and caring toward people, as in 「優しい先生」.

For severity or hardship, 「厳しい」 is the default. Use 「厳格」 for a strict attitude, 「厳重」 for tight security or strict handling, 「手厳しい」 for scathing criticism, 「厳密」 for precision, and 「きつい」 for something taxing. The rest are more specialized: 「峻厳」「冷厳」「峻烈」 for sternness, 「猛烈」「激烈」「凄まじい」 for sheer intensity, and 「酷」「酷烈」「過酷」「酷い」「こっ酷い」 for harshness or cruelty. Antonyms: 「甘い」 is lax, 「寛大」 lenient, 「穏やか」 mild, 「優しい」 kind.

Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only

Japanese definitions
  1. 親切しんせつに扱あつかわない。態度たいどが冷つめたい。
  2. とてつもない。ものすごい。耐たえ難がたい。苛烈かれつな。
  3. 威圧いあつ感かんのある。人ひとをはねつけるような。けわしい。
  4. 難むずかしい。うまくいきそうにない。楽観らっかんできない。
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