How to say "abandon" in Japanese

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  • 諦めるあきらめるJLPT N3approx.Common
    ichidan verb, transitive verbCovers abandoning hope, plans, or goals in the sense of giving up and resigning yourself to the outcome. The natural choice when effort stops and acceptance sets in, as with a dream or ambition.
    その少年しょうねんは死しんだものとしてあきらめられた。↗
    The boy was given up for dead.
  • 見捨てるみすてるCommon
    ichidan verb, transitive verbFor abandoning a person or dependent who relied on you — deserting or forsaking them, often with a moral tinge of betrayal. Use it when someone is left behind and written off.
    彼かれは友人ゆうじんから見捨みすてられてしまった。↗
    He was deserted by his friends.
  • 思い切るおもいきるCommon
    godan verb, transitive verbMeans abandoning a thought, wish, or intention by resolving to let it go; it carries the nuance of making a clean mental break rather than simply failing. Suits giving up on an idea one had entertained.
    彼女かのじょの事ことが思い切おもいきれない。↗
    I can't forget her.
  • 見放すみはなすCommon
    godan verb, transitive verbAlso for abandoning people, meaning to give up on someone as hopeless and stop caring for or supporting them. Close to 見捨てる, with a stronger sense of concluding the person is beyond help.
    彼かれは医者いしゃに見放みはなされた。↗
    He was given up on by the doctors.
  • 取り下げるとりさげるCommon
    ichidan verb, transitive verbOnly marginally 'abandon': it means to withdraw something formally, such as a lawsuit or petition, and is really the word for withdrawal in legal or official contexts, not for abandoning people or hopes.
    若わかさゆえに彼かれに対たいする告訴こくそは取り下とりさげられた。↗
    The charges against him were dropped because of his youth.

Use 「諦める」 for giving up hope or plans, 「見捨てる」 or 「見放す」 for abandoning people, 「思い切る」 for abandoning an idea or desire, and 「取り下げる」 only for formally withdrawing something like a lawsuit.

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