女房|にょうぼうnyoubou[1]atamadaka (head-high)
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- nounwife (esp. one's own wife)
- nouncourt lady; female court attache; woman who served at the imperial palace
- nounwoman (esp. as a love interest)
- SynonymつまNeutralListed as an antonym but actually another word for wife; the true opposites of 「女房」 are 「夫」 and 「亭主」.
- Synonym家内かないNeutralA humble term for mentioning your own wife to outsiders; politer and more modest than 「女房」.
- Synonym奥様おくさまFormalA highly polite honorific for another person's wife or for addressing the lady of the house.
- Synonym奥さんおくさんNeutralEveryday way to refer to someone else's wife; friendlier and less formal than 「奥様」.
- Synonym夫人ふじんWrittenHonorific for another person's wife, often a celebrity's, as in 「大統領夫人」.
- SynonymかかあCasualRough colloquial term for one's own wife with an old Edo downtown flavor; 「女房」 is the more easygoing of the two.
- SynonymワイフCasualLoanword for wife with a light, casual tone; more informal than 「妻」.
- Synonym愚妻ぐさいWrittenWritten, self-deprecating way to refer to one's own wife; rarely used in modern Japanese.
- Synonym令室れいしつFormalHonorific for the other person's wife, used in letters and other formal settings.
- Synonym令夫人れいふじんFormalHonorific for the other person's wife; more widely applicable than 「令室」.
- Synonym令閨れいけいFormalWritten honorific for another person's wife; rarely used today.
- Synonym妻女さいじょWrittenWritten, old-fashioned word for one's wife, or for a wife and daughters; seldom used today.
- Synonym妻室さいしつWrittenWritten term for a wife in general; rare today and without the affectionate feel of 「女房」.
- Synonym細君さいくんWrittenOld-fashioned term for a peer's or subordinate's wife, also used humbly of one's own wife.
- Synonym嫁さんよめさんCasualColloquial, affectionate word for one's wife; common in the Kansai region as well.
- RelatedおかみさんNeutralRefers to the proprietress of a shop or inn; also used for another person's wife.
- RelatedかみさんCasualColloquial term for one's own or another's wife; can also mean a woman shopkeeper.
- Related刀自とじWrittenArchaic honorific for an older woman, as in 「○○刀自」; rare in modern usage.
- Related御新造ごしんぞうWrittenOld honorific for the wife of a samurai or wealthy merchant; essentially unused today.
- Related嫁はんよめはんCasualKansai colloquialism for one's wife, with an affectionate feel; equivalent to 「嫁さん」.
- Antonym亭主ていしゅNeutralAntonym: husband or head of the household, with a colloquial feel; pairs naturally with 「女房」.
- Antonym夫おっとNeutralAntonym: the most neutral word for husband, usable even in formal settings.
「女房」is a relaxed, colloquial word for your own wife. For a neutral tone use 「妻」; humble 「家内」 when telling outsiders about her. For someone else's wife say 「奥さん」, or the politer 「奥様」; 「夫人」 suits a celebrity's wife. For a husband use 「夫」 or 「亭主」; the many written terms like 「愚妻」 and 「令室」 are rare today.
Usage comparisons are AI-assisted and cross-checked by multiple models; for study reference only


