How to say "rub" in Japanese

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  • こするJLPT N2approx.Common
    godan verb, transitive verbThe broadest everyday verb for rubbing: moving a hand or object back and forth over a surface, as in rubbing tired eyes or scrubbing at a stain. Usually written in kana.
    石せっけんを付つけてごしごしこすれば汚よごれが落おちます。↗
    Rub briskly with soap, and the stain will soon wash off.
  • さするCommon
    godan verb, transitive verbRubbing gently and repeatedly to soothe, as when rubbing someone's shoulders or back; close to patting or massaging. Choose this when the touch is comforting rather than scrubbing.
    胸むねをさすってあげましょうか。↗
    Would you like me to massage your chest?
  • 擦るするCommon
    godan verb, transitive verbRubbing that involves real friction — chafing the skin, striking a match, filing something down. Be aware it reads する, exactly like the verb 'to do'.
    ケリーはマッチを擦すってパイプへもっていった。↗
    Kelly struck a match and put it to his pipe.
  • もむJLPT N2approx.Common
    godan verb, transitive verbRubbing by pressing and working with the hands or fingers, as when rubbing sore shoulders; also covers crumpling, like crumpling paper into a ball. Usually written in kana.
    その結果けっかの報道ほうどうに満足まんぞくして彼かれは手てをもんでうれしがっていた。↗
    He was rubbing his hands over the report of the result.
  • 撫でるなでるJLPT N2approx.Common
    ichidan verb, transitive verbSeldom the right word for actual rubbing: it means stroking or caressing with a light, gentle pass of the hand, as in stroking a dog or a child's hair.
    母はははため息いきをつきながら、高校こうこう一いち年生ねんせいにもなった息子むすこの頭あたまをがしがしと撫なでた。↗
    Mom sighed, and tousled the hair of her first-year high school son's head.

Use 「こする」 for general rubbing and scrubbing, 「さする」 for gentle, soothing rubbing, 「擦る」 for friction such as chafing or striking a match, 「もむ」 for working on something with the hands, and 「撫でる」 for light stroking rather than true rubbing.

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